Words i hiki ole mana. I ka mea, e wāwahi i ka naau. I mai la, a hiki i ka wela o ka manaʻo hoʻopiʻi, a "i nui", i oluolu i ka hoʻopoina. A ka mea, 'o maoli' ino, ina oe i keia firsthand.
Aia ma lalo o ka papa inoa o nä hopuna i mea ole ae i ka olelo i loko o ka pilina, no ka mea, e maoli eha.
1. He a pau kou hewa / waina
Hoopii aku ai i kekahi kanaka 'aʻole i manaʻo e hoʻoponopono i ka pilikia, a hiki ina ke kanaka mea maoli hewa. Kou hoapili ia e pale aku accusatory olelo, akā, kahi ke kumu i manaʻo ai ai, a i ole ia i ka wehewehe, a me ke kaumaha kōkua ma ka manao paa o ka pilikia.
2. He / kana hana mau i ka mea no iaʻu
Oe ke ole e hoomanao, e hiki loa, e haawi mai i laʻana o ka mea kahiko. Hoʻohālikelike me ka mea mua ipo - huhu ole wale iā ia, akā, i ka hōʻike i kaʻikena pilina mea i maopopo ma ka laina me ka mua kekahi. Kēia 'o ia hoʻi i kou hoapili ia, e mau hopohopo ana paha ka mea, ua lawa maikai. Inā ka pilina mea maoli i ka pilikia, e pono e e kūkā mai a hoʻonā 'ia me ke kōkua o keʻae like hoʻokuʻu ma kahai.
3. 'O kēia ka stupidest mea aʻu hulina lohe (ka)
E like me ke aloha hoalawepu, kou boyfriend / loira, e lawe i kou mau pahu hopu a me ka manao. Inā ka mea, e ai pane maʻalahi, malia o hiki maikaʻi no lākou,ʻaʻole e olelo aku i kekahi mea? Ina o ka manao o maoli absurd, ke ole ka mea, he mea hiki ole ma mua e komo i loko o kona o Mānoa, a laila ka hoike i ko lakou manao softer ma mua no laila, bezappelyatsionnno e hōʻoleʻia kāna mea? Mākou iā mākou iho pinepine hoonoho ia makou iho i ka pahu, eʻaʻole pono e hana i kēia mea i ka hoʻopuniʻana kanaka.
4. I wale makemake e ku oe pololei manawa!
Oia hoi, ina physical hainā ma kou hoapili ia i ike ole i ka mea maikaʻi nenamnogim. He E pale i na manao, a hiki i ka wa a ka mea, aole i i kekahi manaʻo hoʻopiʻi kū'ē. 'Aʻole wale nō e kāʻili wale, aole ia e hoʻoponopono i kekahi pilikia, ia kekahi kumu no ia.
5. E hiki ole ke hana i kekahi mea kēia manawa!
He He pilikia loa hopuna'ōlelo, oe no ka mea, hoʻomaka e manaoio ia. Kaawale mai o ka mea ia oe ua lapuwale, a hiki ina ia mea ole, kou hoapili ia lakou aloha ia kou pakiko-nani a me ka hoʻoponopono-ka wiwo ole.
6. I hai aku oe
O ka holo ana, a ua ike no oukou, heʻoluʻolu, e kālele ana ma luna o ka mea ia oe, ua pono, a kou hoa paio - ole. Akā, i kēia mea hoʻoholo? A o kou hoapili ia i kou hoa paio? A pau keia hopuna'ōlelo, oe e i aku nei au, a lohe i loko o lākou ka lokomaikaʻiʻia mai, ia mea i ka lolouila wale, akā, i hana eha hoi nui.
7. Ina e aloha mai iaʻu, oe e ...
No "ifs", aʻaʻohe "e." Kēia manaʻo koikoi - he manipulation, i ua banned ma ka maʻamau, a olakino pilina i loko o kekahi alanui. Eia hou kekahi, ia mea loa sneaky kuʻina, no ka mea, i kou mea i aloha ai ua ike ia, o ka papa, e aloha aku iā ia, a, o ka papa, ma hope o kona noi. Akā, e hiki ole alaila, e noi aku ai?
8. Mai Mai lei ia
Hoole, o ka noʻonoʻo loi i loko o ka pilina ma ka liʻiliʻi koke i ka hoʻomaka 'ana o ka mea maikai? Kou mau kanaka, e aloha mai oe ma kekahi aoao. Inā ia mea, o ka papa, aloha. Ka mea, e kaumaha aku oe i ka apana o noʻu iho, akā, heʻoiaʻiʻo, aole e haha aku e like me ka ole i loko o ke koho ana o ke kaila oe.
9. oe piha / ke hoʻoholo 'ia mai iaʻu
Kēia ke kani loa ai kiʻi, akā, ma ka ike maopopo keia mea he ula bele. Healthy pili pū kekahi wa no ka hooulu ana o kēlā me kēia hoalawepu, oiai keia hopuna'ōlelo Hōʻike, kaumaha ma luna o ke ola i kaʻilikai. E makaala lakou i na olelo, no ka mea, me ia no hoi ke hele mai kiʻekiʻe 'upu'.
10. [hookomo i kekahi disrespectful oleloʻaneʻi]
No kekahi eʻae i ka mea i ka mea, ua ole ā ina. No ina oe e ole manaʻo i ke kanaka kuleana i kona aloha a me ka manaʻo no oe. Ma ka mea palapala ka mea, i ole i olelo ia, me he mea ole kākaʻikahi oleloia, ua i hoolauleaia mai me ia. 'Ōlelo Aʻo i kekahi kumu hoohalike o ka hana o ka hoapili ia a me ka hele aku mai o kekahi pilina i loko i ka mahalo i (a oe pu me ia,) i ka mea aole e hookomo ana. He / ua mau i ka hana ia a pau ma luna o ka hou? E manawa, a me na mea a pau.