Kēia subconscious kou akamai ololi ke koho ana o ka hoa i hana

A lohe o Syama Meger, he hoʻomalu i loko o ka mahinaʻai o ke kalepa e-kalepa oihana o ka luawai-ike Amelika kaula Barneys New York, ua waiho i ka palapala noi, e hoomahuahua, ka mea, ua hahai kona mau kiekie pahu hopu. Ka wahine i ka manao e komo i loko o ka hoʻolālā 'Oihana e makemake ae ia e kahu ai i ka nui loa o ka hana. Naʻe, ka mea, ua mea e makau: keia mea i ka pilikia o ka mea naʻau hoʻonawaiwali, no ka mea, he nui no mākou e kalele iho i na manao o nā hoapili. A ka mea, ua he pololei ala e e kanaka ike e pili ana i ko lakou mau manao.

I ka wā i loko o ka hopena i i kiʻi i ka paipai 'Syama, UAIAaIN ma kekahi moho ka mea i hele mai, mai kekahi poʻe, ka mea, ua incredibly hoʻohiki. Like na kanaka,ʻalo me ka ole ma ka hana, ua hoopii no kākoʻo mai nā hoapili. He Heʻano clichéd kulana home 'ole: ma ka huli o ke kākoʻo a me ke aloha mai o na mea e ae. Naʻe, i loko o ka puke pai " 'ano' kālaikaiaola" he i ka hopena o ke ao, ana ia mākou mea e mau loa ana me hiki ke ponoʻole ike aku o ka lanakila a me ka lunakanawai kanaka.

Nā hualoaʻa kekahi hōʻike ana i ke koho ana o nā hoapili, i ka mea a mākou huli no kākoʻo, hilinaʻi nui ma luna o mākou hoohanau. Men ho'āʻo e imi allies e kōkua ke hoʻoponopono pilikia pilikia a paipai i kekahi mea, a me nā wāhine manao aloha, a me ka pono kākoʻo. A, e like me ka rula, keia mea he losing kou akamai.

Where e nana i kākoʻo?

I ka like 'ole 246 kanaka: 121 na kanaka, a 125 me na wahine. Ka mea, i kaumaha aku ai 2 wahi, i hiki: komo i loko o physical hakakāʻana, a make ia, e like me ka pono i ola a make ai i loko o ke kaua no ke kūlana kiʻekiʻe. Ma kēlā me kēia hihia, na confrontation hanaia me ke kanaka o ka ia ke keka. A laila, i komo i hōʻike kiʻi o 20 hiki "hoa" ka poe i makaukau no ke kōkua a kākoʻo. Mākou i ke koho i ka mea a lakou i huli ai no ke kōkua, a me ka wehewehe ana i kanaka e ia lakou iho i loko o.

ʻO wai ka hoa, a owai la kaʻenemi?

Ma ka hihia o ka poino i loko o physical Competition, koho ka hapanui o na kanaka i ke kane Ally huli alihi kaua. Women i makemake kona maikai keia manawa o kou hoohanau. Penei, ka noiʻi i manao ai, i ka palupalu lehalehu t hiʻona, nunui maka a me ka wahine kēpau kanaka, e lawe i ke ola ana o ka altruism a me ka empathy i loko o kānaka. Mau e kuhikuhi imi i ka manao a me kākoʻo mai physical poino.

Ma ka hihia o ka paipai 'ana i ka' oihana hulili, a me na kanaka a me na wahine makemake e imi allies waena o nā wāhine, ka nānā 'ana i ka hope o ke kaua. Ua huli mai i hana pu ole ma ka hoohanau, a me loko o ka papa o ka lanakila pilikia.

About stereotypes

E like me ia Manuela Watkins, kekahi o nā kākau o ke ao, a ua haʻi'ōlelo maʻike manaʻo ma ka Kulanui o Aberdeen, kanaka manaoio i ka poe i haawi mai i ka manaʻo o ka Hoʻohaku alakaʻi (ma mawaho kiko'î) mea e hiki ke hoʻolako pono kākoʻo, akā, hiki ke kōkua ka wā e hele mai ai i ka pono pōhaku puna hana. Ka mea, i manaoia e kamailio emi mai, akā, oi hana, aʻaʻole prone nolaila, i ka empathy. Naʻe, i ka study kākau i hoʻomaopopo i kēia mau stereotypes, a hai mai i ka subconscious, ma kekahi wahi, i hiki, i e mamao aku, mai ka olelo oiaio.

Mihi ole hana?

ʻO ia Syama Meger maila ia ma hope o ka make i loko o ke kaua no ka oihana, eʻimi i kākoʻo mai kela nā hoapili, a me ke keiki nui ma luna o kona mau pono kanaka me alakaʻi ano. Ka mea,'ōlelo akula i ka naauao olelo hooholo, no laila, koi aʻelaʻo ia i kekahi kulanakauhale, a wehe ae la i kona mau naueue ole, a ua hiki ke loaʻa i kekahi poʻo maikai. Ma ka hopena, ua mahalo loa ia i ia manawa hoa mai,ʻaʻole e minamina ia, a hōʻike manao, a ho'āʻo i kona kūpaʻa, e neʻe hou aku. Me kēia mau mea nā hoapili aloha i kahi lōʻihi, a hele aku la kekahi o lakou, e hana i loko o kona mau hoa a pau.