No ke aha la e na kanaka e moe - e ka ike!

A me maoli, no ke aha la na kanaka e moe? He aha hana ia ikaika i ke keka, ka mea i loa holomua, waiwai, paa e kū ana ma luna o kona mau wawae, koke huna ana i kona mau maka, hilahila minoʻaka, poe, painfully inventing kekahi moʻolelo hiki ole?

Pēlā ka manaʻo i ina oe e ole lawe i loko o ka nui o ka pathological, he poe wahahee a me ka hihia e like me ke Kahukula Nui, i ka mua kumu no ka wahaheʻe ka mea, i mea ka ia me ia i nā mea a pau a mākou: i ka makaʻu o ka misunderstood, unappreciated, unclaimed. Inā mākou e kālailai i ka typical pilikia - No ke aha la na kanaka e moe - e huli mai i stereotypes e pili kēia i'Āhewa. Man nui loa "E haʻihaʻi": e loaʻa pono, e lilo ia i luna o ka 'ohana, no ka e hiki ke hana nā mea a pau a puni ka hale, kūkulu i ka' oihana, he paa e wehe ae i ke kapa, no ... He ua manaoia i ka kūikawā pāʻoihana, akamai'ōlelo aʻo, kuleana hana. A ina he kanaka no ke komo maluna nawaliwali, ina e mau Makuakane me kona mau hala? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua pau - kanaka, a me ka mea kanaka mea malihini ia mai, a me na kanaka - me! Akā, i ka mea ana i olelo mai a hui hou i ka wahine, ke kanaka i hoopiiia, aneane he hewa. Hoeha aku ia ia, akā, e ole hea, mai i kau! He paʻakikī, akā, e ahonui, mai hoohewa aku! Aole i loaa i ka hana i na mea, eehia i ka naau - mea malama i ka hao, kekahi meaʻIno! A no ke aha la na kanaka e moe! Aʻole ka propensity e wahahee,ʻaʻole mai ka makemake e hoike aku, e kau ia lakou iho ma ka malamalama loa maikaʻi. A no ka mea, o ko lākou 'ē aʻe - hope, me ka pilikino noho kulana a me ka' ihiʻihi kaa, akā, me ka menina aa i loko o kona eke, nā wāhine mea nui,ʻaʻole i makemake eʻae. A ina he kanaka hoʻomaka e kamailio i ko lakou pilikia ana, ina e huli mai ia,ʻaʻoleʻo ia, akā, neleʻo ia i ka poohiwi, ho mai i ka kōkua lima - e like me ka pilina i ke kanaka, e like me ka 'ikepili helu, ewalu mai o na wahine he umi, e ole nakinaki.

Kēia - ka mea mua, a me ka kumu nui na kanaka ke wahahee mai. A me ka 'ē aʻe - unwillingness o ka lala kekahi o ka ikaika ke keka, e e ikaika a me ka kuleana. Ke kumu no keia mea paha i loko o nā koina hoʻonaʻauao ma ka hoʻokali kūpono 'malama a me ka pa i ke keiki, a laila, i ke kanaka'ōpiopio no ka nui o ke ola. Infantile, asocial ua lōʻihi i diagnoses i ke kālā no ke kaiāulu kanaka, a me ka ho ololi i ka hana o nā halves o ka manaʻo kanaka. Akā, laila hou, ina na wahine o ko lakou mau 'ia mai nei a hui hou, ma kekahi mau wahi, i hiki, no ka mea, na kanaka, auwe,ʻaʻohe. Pilina me ke kūkuluʻia ma luna o ka ua kukuluia manaʻo me kekahi wahi, i hiki ke kanaka.

Ua Ua lōʻihi mālama 'ia ke kanaka i mālama ana i ka wahine e kōkua iā ia ke hoʻoponopono pilikia, kiʻi mai o ka pilikia wahi, i hiki, ma ka hopena, ka mea, ua hoakaka kālā kumupaʻa. ʻOiai feminism ua e ho onui ana momentum, e hiki ke loaʻa ke kālā a me ka uku i ko lakou makemake hou, a nui nā wāhine, ka nohona mau hae o ka Archive ua ole i hookuu mai ai ia. No ka mea, o ka ia, i ikaika, maopopo koʻu manao i kanaka e slender kaikamahine, papai lihilihi ma ke ano o ka hahai'ēheu - kekahi o ia eʻaʻole tolerate ma ka aoao o kona effeminate kane kanaka mea,ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi huakaʻi de I max. Ka paulele i kona wā e hiki mai e uwa - i ka mea a lakou e makemake!

A o ka mea nele i ke kanaka? A wahine nana, eʻae ia no ka mea ia mea. A me nā mea a pau i nā pono a pau o, zamorochki ka nele iʻini ma waho, ikaika a me ka palupalu. Kēiaʻike manaʻo ma waena o nā kānaka a me nā wāhine oko. O ka holo ana, mai poina e pili ana i pilikia makapō hoopii, sexuality, hana e pili ana ia lakou iho, e holo i ka hale, a hiki kula haʻahaʻaa - kukeʻana. Akā, me nā aohe ahailono, a pau i loko o kēia wahi kane wahine kala ina o ka hui e e ka naauao, a me ka oiaio mahalo. Inā he wahine mea ole wale i ka wahine no ia, akā, he hoa, he ike loea a me ka kupaʻa hoa.

Kekahi kumu - kanaka manaʻo ia 'oe e moe i "ke ola." Hoku Welowelo aloha poʻe mai ka hoʻokali kūpono 'hopohopo, o ka oi aku ina mau haunaele hiki i loko o kā lākou mau hewa, e hūnā i ka oiaio, no laila, i ole e aggravate i ka pilikia - ka mea, ike i loko o keia ka panacea no ka hailona o ke negativity. O ka holo ana, keia mea i ka oihana o ka ostrich, e kanu i ko kākou mau poʻo i loko o ke one ka wā pilikia, akā, e hana ia.

Eia kekahi manaʻo manawa no ke aha la na kanaka e moe ...