No ke aha la hana kanaka wahahee: Kawaipunahele Dr. Lightman

Like leʻaleʻa o ka'īʻana mai i ka meʻe o kekahi o ka loa hanohano TV moʻo o kaʻumi makahiki i hala, he eccentric kauka Gregory House - "Ke moe." Anei keia he oiaio? 'Ikepili helu hōʻike i ke ahiahi, i ka loa a me ka hoʻopono hamama kanaka kēlā wā i kēia wā haʻi aku i ka oiaio i na mea e ae. No ke aha la e kanaka wahahee , a me ka mea pushes ia ia ia ia?

No ke aha?

Aia nō kekahi mau kumu nui e pahu aku ai i kekahi kanaka mai o ia ho i ka maoli kulana home 'ole i loko o ka loa okoa waihoʻoluʻu a hiki hūnā kekahi kūʻiʻo, Loa pinepine kekahi kanaka ua moe, i ka wa:

• makau iho la lakou i ka huhu a me ka hana ino i ke kanaka, a ua manaoia no keia 'ole kekahi' ē ike;
• makau i ka mea e e nema aku ai hoohewaia, aole makemake ole ia e hoopaiia ia no kekahi hewa i kona (e like me ke keiki,ʻo :));
• Ua makemake e hōʻike hoʻi i kona momona, ma mua o ka mea nae o.

More pohihihi, akā, i ka hiki kumu e moe ana i kekahi kanaka, e lilo i ka maikai wale a me ka hikiʻole, eʻike Fantasy mai ka aku o ka lanakila.

Pehea e hōʻike?

About iaia ke moe ma ka politika-waha cues (kino 'ōlelo, lima kolohe' ana, etc.) Ua palapala, a olelo mai nei he nui loa. Eia naʻe, nui emi loli ana ma ke kumuhana o ana e maopopo i ke kanaka mea akamai, ma o kona olelo ana. A me keia manawa, a ina e lilo i mua o kekahi ole-waha hoailona, i ke ala i ka kanaka olelo, oe e e hiki ke kālailai i loko o kekahi alanui.

1. E noi i nä ninau. Me hou nui, kanaka, ka poe moe i ka kālele ana ma ka mea a lakou e olelo aku nei, akā,ʻaʻole pehea. Nolaila, e hoʻoneʻe 'ia paha i ke kanaka nana i, me ke komoʻana, e pane i kou ninau me ka olelo i oleloia e oe i kekahi mau kekona aku nei. No kekahi laʻana, ina e ninau aku, "He ia oe wawahi i ke kamepiula?" A oe e lohe i ka pane ana i kekahi mea e like, "No, au i i wawahi i ke kamepiula." - Ua kekahi o ka hoailona mua ia ma ke alo o oukou nei he mea wahahee.

2. pinepine moe ka loaʻaʻana ua hana ma luna o ka uuku a me ka intonation o ka olelo. Ke kanaka, ka mea i pio, e hele, e hele mai me ka wehewehe, e olelo iki aku ma mua o mau lohi. Inā ka mea, he manawa e hele mai ai me ka "alibi", laila loa paha, ka mea, e lilo ia i wahi wikiwiki (o ka papa, e pono e i manawa e olelo aku i kekahi mea ma mua au hoʻopoina!). A i kekahi kanaka ke moe, e hiki pinepine e hou i kona mooolelo i ka nui helu o ka poe liilii, a me kaʻole maoli lāliʻi.

3. Protracted ihola ma ka olelo, a grammatically pololei ole keia manawa, pinepine 'oe a - kekahi hoailona o ka wahahee.

4. Inā 'oe i loli i ke kumuhana, a me ka interlocutor ua' Imi kākoʻo i kēia nunui nanea wale - ma keia hope aku ka wa kahiko theme like uaʻawaʻawa loa no ia. Ua hoʻoneʻe 'ia paha ia oe i ole lohe i ka hookahi olelo o ka oiaio, mai ona aku.

5. E ho'āʻo e noi aku i ka interlocutor wehewehe hanana i aʻe mea. Inā he kanaka e haʻi i kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ka mea i oluolu i ka hana ia. Akā, i ka wahahee, e hoʻomaka e kiʻi lilo a me ka panic.

kahi o ka epilogue

We loaʻa i ke kumu nui no ke aha la ke kanaka e moe ana, e like me kekahi mau aoao, e hoao i ka oiaio o kona interlocutor. A nui ka nui o ka 'ike e pili ana i ka moe i loko o kona hoike ana a pau, etc. hiki ke loaa ma ka pūnaewele puni honua - ho'āʻo i ka nānā i ka pono ma luna o ia ka hoihoi 'kumuhana like me ka polygraph wahahee.

Eia naʻe, ma ka mea i oe i loa i ke loaʻa mai ke kumu i ke kanaka i moe, a me ka manao ana e hana i keia - ho'āʻo i hana ua mau ia e loa pono me ka 'ē aʻe. "E like me ka leo kahea, no laila, ke küpinaÿi" - e keia meaʻoiaʻiʻo i poina!