O kona kūlana ma ke o kēia au nei He aha ka kaʻike manaʻo o ke alakaʻi a me ka mea

Ua manao ia iaʻu i ka ua i kaʻike manaʻo o ke alakaʻi iā mākou i ka loa i makahiki, a ina he wahi lihi iki o ka makahiki aku nei, ko kakou mau kupuna, a oi loa aku hoi kūpuna ao aku, ma luna o nā mea a pau, e noonoo a me ka haahaa, i ka lā hoʻokokoke mai ai i ke keiki-hānai kapu ua hoʻololi dramatically.

Social a mau loli ua i kā lākou mau mea hoʻololi i ka nohoʻana o ka maʻamau kanaka. A me ka momoku ahi hou manaÿo, e like me, e olelo oukou, hoʻok &, noa kuai a waiwai, ma laila nō nā manao ma parenting. Ano, i aloha i ka hoʻomaka 'ana o ka nuipa aʻike manaʻo, a alakaʻi, no laila, i nā mea a pau' Oihana vying i aʻo aku ma ka kakahiaka nui kona mau makahiki, e vaccinate i kekahi keiki i ke ano o ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia a me kiʻekiʻe ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia. Kēia mea pehea, e like me ia ia lakou, e lawe mai i kekahi maoli alihi kaua, hiki no, hooiaio ae pepehi hou ka Competition, e hoao i ko lakou hihia, hoʻokō ao ae, a, nolaila, lilo i kekahi kanaka o ka hou hanauna.

I ka rula, i kekahi ke i aku nei au i alakaʻi -ʻike manaʻo, e like me ka hoike ana o ka hoʻoponopono-centeredness. Somehow, au aneane loa hoomaopopoia ia me ka makemake e alakaʻi, a ia i ka piko o ka noonoo ana i mua i hānau nā keiki. Ie na kao keiki mea mua kekahi ikehu alihi kaua, a laila, pau hilinaʻi nui ma luna o ka hoʻonaʻauao, ma i, o ka papa, pakiko-nani a me ka hoʻoponopono '-paulele oiai ka mea, e nui eiiiiiaiou o ka mea naʻau moku'āina, akā, i ka mea ia manawa aole lakou i ole i mea e lohe mai sensible ka hoʻoponopono-noʻonoʻo loi, a me ka ikaika makemake i ka hoʻoikaika' ana.

Paha i kaʻike manaʻo o ke alakaʻi - ka mea, he mea e pono e mahi i loko o ka subconscious, mai ka loa kakahiaka makahiki. No ke aha la au e manaʻo pēlā? Charismatic, a me ka hana 'ana i o ka alihi kaua kanaka ulu wale kekahi o ka poe keiki a pau mai ka wā kamaliʻi Ua mahalo ia no ka holomua, mālama' ia ma minute o ka hoʻokō 'ole', ka poe i hilinai a ae e hoʻomākaukau i kā lākou hou ike a me ka akamai pū nō hoʻi, ka paipai 'ana ma nāʻano halawai ana me nā pilikia ia. Ua mea i ike ole ia i ka mea mua nui pio, a me ka lanakila o ke kanaka iki e kaili ia wahi i loko o nā paia o ka hale. Ma ka home mākou aʻo mahalo, kuai i ka hiki i ka hoohuli,ʻae pio a me ke pale ole. A hailona o ke ano a me ka ano kāna moʻolelo i'āpono nā mākou, mai o ka hale o ko mākou makua. Inā ke keiki dramatized nāʻohana, a me ka loa mailuilu haalele hana 'ia, a laila, e uluʻoi aku ka manao a me ka insecure ia i kekahi kanaka.

Oe makemake e hoʻomāhuahua i kou hiki wale mai, e lilo i alakaʻi? E aʻo i kaʻae oe ia oe iho a me kou hoʻopuni okoa: a me ka hope a me Winners, a me ka nawaliwali a me ka ikaika. Nanea i ka lanakila i mau kiʻi, akā, i kēia mea maopopo leʻa,ʻaʻole lawa ka, e pono e ka Haku e, a oi pilikia hana: e aʻo pehea e pāʻani ai, a, e hana ai me ka hanohano, me kaʻike piʻi kekahi pōʻino a me ka ole.

Pehea e ike i ka luna i waena o mākou?

"Ua pono, e keʻaʻole paakiki!" - oe ke olelo, a au hiki ole kū'ē'ē 'ana me oe. Alakaʻiʻike manaʻo mea hiki ia,ʻo. Mau charismatic kanaka oe ke mau ku mai i ka poe kanaka: ka mea, eʻoliʻoli a me kaʻeleu, ia mea i loko o ko lakou mau poo e hele mai i ka hapanui seemingly Kamehameha manaʻo, a lawe aku la lakou i ka nui kūlana ma ka hoʻokō 'ana o ka manao.

Alakaʻiʻike manaʻo e hāʻawi mai ai i ke kēia ho'ākāka 'ana. Oia kekahi kanaka ana i ke kēiaʻano moʻolelo.

• hiki lākou naʻau leʻaleʻa o ko lākou mau hewa;
• Ua nā pōʻalo i ka mai o ka hoʻokō 'ole' pono i kā mākou;
• Ia, aole ia eʻae i kekahi noʻonoʻo loi i ka naʻau;
• mau ulu kona ikaika ;
• hooiaio ana mai iaʻu i kanaka o kekahi mau hanauna;
• entrains;
• Heʻike i ka manawa pono e hōʻike aku tālena.

A eia ka mea hope, au makemake makemake, e nana i ka eia. Mai ke kakahiaka wā kamaliʻi, he kanaka e koho i ko lakou mau nā makakoho. A mai'āhewa oe iho no ka mea, no ka kekahi laʻana, e loaa ia mea paakiki ia e kekahi hōʻike no ka lehulehu. Paha oe mea ole i ka luna i loko o ke kākā'ōlelo, akā, e maikaʻi HW a kalakalai aʻela hoʻi laau. Oe wale Pono e aʻo i ka prioritize. Manaʻo a me ka hooholo, akā, ma ka rula, ka mea oi nui no oe: kona kaulana a me ka maluhia. E koho? A laila, e hele no ka mea!