Pehea e keiki i ukuhiʻia i kekahi keiki biting? Kōkua no nā mākua

Ma ke ola ana o aneane na makua ua kekahi kulana, ka wā i kona keiki i biting kekahi. Mother, makua, kekahi keiki, kupuna wahine a me kaʻu popoki. Ka mea, loaa ae nei i ka lima wela, a he oiaio, he niho, ka mea, uaʻawaʻawa loa, a ola. Kēia 'o ia hoʻi i ka mea hana ka hewa, a ua pono kaua ia. Akā, pehea e keiki i ukuhiʻia i kekahi keiki biting, no laila, i ole e holo i loko o kekahi mea iʻoi kaʻawaʻawa loa?

Ma mua, olelo aku keia ninau, ua pono e maopopo i nā kumu ke kumu āna i hana ai i kēia, no ka mea, ka mea, ua mau mamua.

I ka makahiki o ka 5 me 7 mahina bebe akiaki oukou wale no ka mea, ma keia ano oia i ua imi e hooluolu aku au i ka eha pili me teething. Nā Papahana O Ka Hana ana ma keia hihia, o ka loa ahuwale: oe i, e haawi aku i kekahi wahi "Snapper" laholio toys, teethers, i mea pela i no keia mea.

ina he keiki e nahu i ka makahiki o ka 8 a hiki i 14 mahina He aha e hana ai? I loko o kēia wā, ua hiki ke hiki, ina ke kamaiki, ua luhi a me ka perevozbudilsya i kekahi "oʻu ho'āʻo i loko o ka niho" i nā mākua ke e ka discomfort a ae hookaawale. Eia hou, na makua i kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi i kāu keiki, biting i kona mau lima e like me ka olelo o ke aloha a me ka aloha. A ina pela i Papai paha makuahine, alaila, o ka hana ana, ma keia aoao, ua koiia e hana kā lākou keiki kāne a ke kaikamahine. Kekahi kēia lākiō mākou pono e hoopoina i: i loko o keia mau makahiki, i kāu keiki 'Imi aoiaʻi oe i ka ke ao nei ma tactile a me kaʻaiʻana ka waiʻona ma ke. He wale akamai e ike i mea e hoao. Pehea e keiki i ukuhiʻia i kekahi keiki biting i keia makahiki? E hoolike oe ia oe i weliweli ehaʻike piʻi, oe e ole overdo ia, akā, pono grotesque 'aʻole e hana ino. Kou kamaiki mea hiki ke hoomaopopo, e hana ino aku i oe, a e ho'āʻo i ka hoʻomau 'ole i ka hana.

I loko o ka hapalua no 3 makahiki bebe akiaki oukou me ka pakiko-pale paha i ka mea e huki noonoo ia lakou iho, albeit io. Kou pēpē, hoʻowahāwahā kona uuku nui, ke 'ike nui manaʻo: helplessness, makaʻu, mea ukiuki loa, huhū. Akā, i ka olelo ana kūpono ka mea,ʻaʻole i lawa ke kino, e hoike i ko lakou Emotions ma ka olelo, pela no ia e nahu mai kekahi, e holo pololei ana i kona hopohopo. Pehea e keiki i ukuhiʻia i kekahi keiki biting i loko o keia hihia? I ole hihia mai i hana ikaika, no ka mea, e like me ia, e oe e kamailio ana no ka manawa lōʻihi, a me ka hailona ana, no laila, e hoʻohana i kēia i kou mea kaua. E wehewehe i kaʻeha nahu kanaka mea e hana ai hewa. E ho'āʻo i kali hou manawa me kou pēpē, e ia ia manao e ola. E ao aku ia ia i ka hoike i kona manaʻo ma ka hua'ōlelo a me nā hana,ʻaʻole e lawe mai ana ka eha i ka 'ē aʻe (e lanakila i ka uluna, hahi ino' ole waimaka pepa).

Ma hope o 3 makahiki nahu mai i ke keiki i loko o ka mahina ai i loko o ka pā hale, e pale aku i ka ino o ko lākou mau na¯, kā lākou kahakaha a me ka aggression i loko o lākou ka lokomaikaʻiʻia mai. Nō hoʻi, hiki ke uhiʻia i ke kumu no ia i naoh ma luna o ka hopena maikaʻi i loko o ka stressful kulana home 'ole ma ka hale: pinepine i nuku mai a oki o ko lākou mau mākua, i hele mai i ka hale o kekahi kanaka i kahi o ka Pope, noonoo ana no ka mea, o ka helehelena o ka uuku kaikaina a me koʻu kaikuwahine maʻule hou ihola nō makuwahine. Pehea e keiki i ukuhiʻia i kekahi keiki biting i loko o ia i ka paakiki kulana home 'ole? Mua oe scold lākou kamaiki no ka "disgraceful hana", e nana a puni me ka manaʻo,ʻaʻole paha i ka hoʻololi 'ana i kā lākou e pili ana i ke keiki i ka manawa, e hana i ka oiʻoluʻolu nā papa hana no ia ma ka hale.

'aʻole i kēia manaʻo i mākou e noho malie, ma ka mea ku ole, ka naoh ma kou aoao pono pono hahai i ke keiki pono ka hoomaopopo ana ia mea hiki ole e hana ai ma lalo o kekahi ana. No laila, eʻoiaʻiʻo i ka pololei kamaʻilio iā ia, ina e ike ai he pono, e hoʻopaʻi (haʻalele me Cartoon ke ahiahi, no ka laʻana), akā, mālama i ka manaʻo i ka pilikia o nā keiki i kokoke mau e'Āhewa makua. A hoʻoholo i ka hopena.