Pehea e poina i ke aloha?

Love - he mea kupaianaha manaʻo, hoalohaloha aku ia a mākou i aʻo ana maikai keia ao. Me ka hoohalike o ke aloha, ua makaukau hoi e hoʻoneʻe mauna, a me nā hana a pau no ka pono o ka poe i waeia mākou. Akā, Eia naʻe, i kekahi manawa, i aloha ai hele ... A pinepine, ina na ko i ma luna o kekahi 'ole o ka' ē aʻe nō makemake e hoʻomau i ka pilina. Pehea e poina i ke aloha? Pehea e kiʻi pohaku uinihepa, o kaʻeha o ka IeIIeYOA, a hiki aku maloko ku okoa ana?

Ma ka ninau o ana i ka hoʻopoina i kona aloha, kekahi e olelo aku nei: "E kuu mai oukou!". A me he mea kekahi e like me ke aloha, no ka mea, he mea hiki ole i ke aloha me ka hoomanawanui, a he mea hiki ole ke loaa i ka uhane hana o ke aloha me ka hōʻinoʻia nahu kuakoko. Aʻike hou manaʻo no lakou iho, haku mele a me nā mea kākau i ua palapala na tausani o na hana i i nō mahalo Contemporary manaʻo kanaka. Ke kanaka i loaʻa i ka ehaeha, wehe i ka hou Ana o? Acaeoey e hiki ka hoihoi aku ia ia i ka makakū ka hana maika`i. Artists, i ka haku mele, sculptors - a pau o ia i loko o kona Kawaihae o ka mōʻaukala o unrequited aloha ... paha oe, e loaa ana mai ka i koe mai o loka, he houʻia e lilo i ka mea nāna i hana o ke akamai, a me ka waiwai i ka hou ano o ke ola, e ike.

Inā 'oe eʻaʻole hoʻi i hāliu mai i kaʻike hoʻokumu, a hoomalau mai la lakou i kekahi (' ano o masochistic) ho okolohua ma luna iho, a seriously hoʻoholo i pakele o kaʻeha o ke aloha, ke hōʻike iā 'oe, e kahiko iho i ka peni a me ka'āpana o ka pepa, a pane i ka nīnau iho: "Pehea e poina i ke aloha?". Ma hope o pau i ke kaʻina hana o ka palapala he uuku ka papa inoa o ka loa Kamehameha koho, kālailai ia. Aia i loko o kēia mau mōhai o na ano? Inā he mea, e ho'āʻo iā lākou no oe ia oe iho. Ma ke alakai ano he kumu hoʻohālike:

• Inu i ka iaiyoe me keia poho.
• E i kekahi aina, a loaʻa i ka hou manaʻo o ke ola.
• Hookomo iho ia lakou iho ma ka hana, Ma waho aʻeo ka kekahi loko me ka na hoalauna, a hoa o ka mua launa kino mamua.

Au e i makemake ia? E ho'āʻo e hele mai me ko lakou mau wale nō.

Epekema ma ka huli ana i ka pane ana i ka ninau: "pehea e hoʻopoina i ke aloha," hele mai i ka hopena i ka maluhia o ka manao, mai kou kaawale ana, e e hiki ke loaʻa ma hope ka hapalua o ka wā manawa a au i noho i loko o ka pilina, i ua, ina halawai, a aloha aku oe i ka makahiki, a laila, i ka eono mahina ma hope o kaʻoluʻolu o oe e e nui maʻalahi. Kēia haʻilula mea e hemolele, a me na mea he nui ma luna o kona hoao ana iho o ka mea oi aku mamua o hookahi i ka hoole, akā, he 'epekema mea i wahi.

Ka paʻakikī i ke kōkua ma ka nīnau: "Pehea e hoopoina mua ke aloha", no ka mea, e like me kou ike teenage aloha noho i loko o mākou hoʻomanaʻo mau loa aku. Ka poe mua loka aneane loa e hiki ke holoiia mai o ka hoomanao ana, a mai ke kumukuai o ia, no ka mea, i ke aloha a hiki i ka pilina 'oe i ike i ka kaʻume a me ka hana uhane aloha palaoa, i kapaia o ke aloha. Na keia akamai Lunakahiko Pelekāneʻepekema e olelo aku nei ia e like me ka 'ikepili helu, na kanaka a me na wahine, halawai i kona aloha mua ma hope o na makahiki, hiki ole Makuakane me ka hoʻowalewale, e "hoomanao i ka elemakule" he nui ka hoʻomau' ana companionship, 'ē aʻe i ole averse i kaʻikeʻia e hiki i ana a me nā hoa. Ka hula hope o kēia mauʻano moʻolelo. Kekahi, e hoopoina ana au a pau, hou kupenu iho la i loko o ka luahohonu o kūlana uʻi a kuko, oiai kekahi poe hoopaa sanity, nullifying a pau kona poʻe mea naʻau outbursts.

Inā 'oe e worrying ana pehea e aloha poina, hāʻule i loko o loa kaumaha, ke hōʻike iā' oe, e lawe oe ia oe iho i loko o ka lima a me ka imi i ka ikaika, e ola ia. Hana i kekahi mea e hoomanao emi mai e pili ana i ka hala, a me e wale ana me ia. Hui me nā hoa a me nā 'ohana, ao a me ka hana, e hana i ka hoʻoponopono' ana i ka neoneo a me keʻena, pakele no na mea, reminiscent o ka mea i aloha ai. Travel, mele a me ka moʻokalaleo - pau keia detracted mai ka maoli ola, Makuakane me ka mea au i manawa nui paakiki. Hoao ia oe iho, a hiki nō hoʻokō kanaka a puni oe nui hualoaʻa, akā, ke aloha, aka, ua ka mea kahiko, mai uhai i kou kookoo. E hauoli oe ia oe iho, e kuai makana, e hele i ka 'aha mele, e hana i kou punahele Hobby a me na mea a pau i oe hiki ole ke hoʻolimalima hale, i loko o ka pili. E hoomanao i na mea a pau i ka hana - no ka mea maikaʻi!