9 na hoailona i oe i lilo "ʻawahia" kanaka

aumeume no mākou me ka "ʻawahia" ole o nā hoa a me nā hoalauna i loko o ko kakou mau ola. Eia naʻe, na kanaka hana ma keia paio ai paakiki, e ike i ko lakou mau hewa. Ai i eha e ae aku i ka mākou e hana pilikia no makou. A e nana aku i ka oiaio, ua hiki e ke koena unuhi. Mua oe 9 na hoailona o kaʻawahia. E lawe i kēia mau kumumea ma lalo o hooponopono, a me oe e hoʻololi ia oe iho no ka maikaʻi.

Anei oe kamaʻilioʻana i ka'Āhewa 'ē aʻe no ko lakou mau pilikia

Oe ua ulu loa mai o pōkole wāwae, akā nō ke imi nei e'Āhewa i kekahi kanaka i loko o kēlā me ko lakou mau pilikia o ka. Akā, inā he mea he kaua, a laila ka mea hewa o nā mea a pau i ke kaua aoao, kekahi aku, kekahi emi. Ia mea,ʻaʻole e pono ke apono i keikiʻike manaʻo i loko o ka ho'āʻo i ka ike i ka papa kuhikuhiE kumu o nā mea a pau i ka pilikia, a no ka hoʻololi kuleana no kā lākou mau hana, mai ko lakou mau hokua ma nā kanaka i ka ho'āʻo pono. "ʻawahia" kanaka aloha e ho'āʻo i ka kūlana o ka nāna. E naauao, a aʻo i e kuleana no lākou mau hana.

E kamailio ana ma hope o kona kua

Ua maʻa nō hoʻi i kona kêia kanaka hohonu i loko o koʻu wā kamaliʻi, ka wā mākou imi e hui pu iho la ma ka liʻiliʻi, a hoʻohālua undesirable hoa. Kamaʻilio hoʻowawāʻia ka hapa o ko mākou evolution, no laila,ʻaʻole loa mākou e puʻupuʻu liʻiliʻi i kēia kŰia. Naʻe, ma mua kēlā me kēia kanaka i ke koho: e e kaʻeleu aku i komo i loko o kamaʻilio hoʻowawāʻia ai paha noho ma luna o nā sidelines. hikiʻano nui ia i kamaʻilio pilikia i ka kekahi. Ua meaʻaʻole paha ia oe makemake me ka io i ke pili, a i ka inoa maikaʻi no ka kamaʻilio hoʻowawāʻia.

E lawe nui ma mua o haawi

Life hiki ole komo wale ana i kekahi mau aiiia a me ke aloha. I kekahi manawa, hele mai la ka manawa i ole e lanakila hiki me ke kōkua o nā hoahanau a me na makamaka. Akā, inā ua lilo commonplace no oe i ka pau ole noi, ua wā e pono e hoʻololi i kekahi mea e hiki mai i ka manawa. E like me nā kānāwai o ka materialism mea,ʻaʻole e hiki ke lawe hou ma mua o ka mea, e haawi aku i ka hoʻi. No ke aha la e ole e hāʻawi'ai'ē aku i ke kōkua lima i ka loa me ka poe nele?

Friends nalo mai i kou ola

I ka pü me kekahi hoʻomaka i ke kaupaonaʻana, kanaka lawelawe i ka hana i ka noho malie e pakele ai, mai ka "ʻawahia" Pilina. Nō kāu, o ka "palemo moku" haʻalele malie, me ka hoʻokali kūpono 'scandals, imi e komo i ka noonoo. E ike i ole kekahi i hāʻawi mai i mea aloha e like me. A pau i kā lākou mau kumu. Ua pono, ina kou mau hoa i ma lalo o kekahi pretext prematurely haʻalele 'oe, e hoonohonoho i ka aoao, he mea kumu e hana introspection. E pono ai me oe ia oe iho, a nana no na kumu kanaka pale aku kokoke kamaʻilio ana me oe.

Ua piha ka hana keaka Life

Mākou i mua kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka mea i ole kekahi mea'ōnaehana paleʻea, mai ka, pili minute i loko o ke ola. He aha hana i kūpono kanaka, ka wā manawa e uaua? He makemake e koke maluna o keiaʻeleʻele 'aukā me ka noho ia no ka lōʻihi manawa. ʻawahia poʻe hele a maʻa i ka hana keaka a me ka hiki hoʻomaka i ka mahi ia.

Oe i ike pehea e e hele o ka negativity

ʻO paakiki i ka neʻe ma luna o ia kekahi mai ka hoa a me hanauna, kena ae la au i hohonu uhane eha. Anei oe makaukau e hui i ka laau o masochists, mauʻano o ia me ka poe i lohi make oe? Not ia e, oe pono e aʻo "ʻawahia" ke kanaka e e hele ana o kanaka, meaʻeha.

Ke makemake ia e pono

E ninau ia oe iho ano nīnau hoʻokahi: au makemake Mai e e mau akau, aole hoi e hauʻoli mau? Ua makemake e kiʻi ina kēia nā papaha mau hiki ke hui. Naʻe, ka mea, aole i hiki mai, a ma ka Hana ana me nā kanakaʻoe i ke aʻo i ka concede. I ole ia, oe e e kaumaha loa kona olioli ole ke kanaka.

Oe noʻonoʻo i ka hopena maikaʻi

Noke a me ka hopena maikaʻi 'aoao o ke ola nei i loko o kēlā manawa kēia manawa. Oe nō i waena o ka poe iʻiʻini e kālele ana ma luna o nā hopena maikaʻi? Ua hōʻike hewa, optimism mea i kou forte. Eia naʻe, ua hiki a e piʻi i keia mea e like ai. E kūkā ihoʻoe, e hoopuni ia oe iho me ka maikaʻi kanaka, a no ka malama i ka diary o ka mahalo.

E Kīwala'ō kamailio

A hiki i ka hope manawa e kamailio ai i nā naʻau i ka naau? Paha, ua hoemiia kau palapala i ka moralizing, a me ka makemake e Kīwala'ō. Imperceptibly oe kūkulu oe ia oe iho i loko o ka ua kiʻekiʻe, a ua kūkulu aʻe nei a pau i kamaʻilio puni ka pono o kou kanaka. Kanaka p'manaolana nei no hoi i kou kamaʻilio nui maluhiluhi o nā kanaka. E hana me ka haawi aku i ka hoa 50 pakeneka o ka "ea manawa."