BDSM. Deciphering hua h ÷ ailona. Nā loina o ka BDSM

Kela kēia kanakaʻiʻoʻalo me ka manaʻo o ka sadomasochism a paha moeʻana ma ka hoomanao ana o naʻee moe kolohe. BDSM moʻomeheu ua manaoia nui ioauoa o ka lalau wale, pelapela, a kuko, aka, o ka mea oiaio? Mea i ike maopopo i ka lehulehu ka ike o ka subculture?

He aha ka BDSM?

'Ano like Ke Ana Hoʻohālike o ka moe kolohe ua pinepine misunderstood, ka oi aku ma lalo o ka aoao o ka haipule dogma, a kau ma kekahi ike ole a me ka wā i nā loina. Misunderstanding a me ka rejection ma ke kaiāulu nō hoʻi loli o ka nohona BDSM. Deciphering hua h ÷ ailona Ua like penei: ka noho luhi ana, ua hahau mai, Sadism Masochism, i translates like "koa, hahau, sadism, masochism". I mea ia mea,ʻaʻole ka mea wale koho decryption - ke kaumaha ma muli o ka naʻauao o ka manaʻo o ka subculture, e like me pilikino pomaikai a me kāu mau koho, BDSM following ke ano o ka inoa ma naʻano likeʻole. Ano o ka olelo "noho luhi ana" e pono kani, a ma nāʻaoʻao: na palapala D a me C hiki no hoi ke ano o ka manaʻo o "Hoʻohaku" a me ka "hoolohe" heluia, a lakou "i ka iwi kuamoo" o ka BDSM moʻomeheu.

Ka manaʻo o BDSM Pilina

I ka lohe ana i ka inoa pōkole BDSM, ka hapanui kanaka i loko o ka paʻakikī kokoke mai i ke ano o konaʻena lede i loko o latex me ka hahau, akā,ʻaʻole mea ike i keia kükohu komo ai na kona piko a i ole e meaningless hanaʻino i ka hoalawepu, a me ka hohonu, ma ka hapanui o na hihia, hauʻoli launa. Ae, he nui ukali o ka BDSM mare, a noho i ka maʻamau ohana, ma kekahi hihia, a hiki e hoole ia BDSM pilina kumu hoʻohālike i loko o ka lokomaikai o ka kuʻuna kekahi.

I mea, o ka maka pua o ka sadism a me ka masochism mea i ka papa kuhikuhiE manaʻo o BDSM. Wehewehe Hōʻike he S & M me ka mea wale kekahi o ka hoikeana a me ka uea 'pakī moe ikehu. Nui malalo ia pilina hiki ke ike ia ma ka hoʻohālike o "Hoʻohaku-hoolohe". Hou, ua kukulu ole ia mau mea pili i ka ikaika hoohaahaa ana, "saba", kā lākou AIM mea ole ka hoʻoponopono-assertion ma ka lilo ana o ka mana Hoʻohaku ma ka hoapili ia. Hoolohe iho o kona hoʻoili a pau kuleana i kona ola "hale", pela e hoike ana i ka mahalo, ke aloha a me ka paulele i loko o kou hoa.

Deciphering acronyms BDSM haawi wale i ka superficial naauao o ka mea underlies ka subculture, nae, ina ua nana aku i ke kumu hoʻohālike o ka pilina ma waena o "hale" a me ka "subwoofer", hiki ke Hahai I loa pilialoha LIKE. Ke hana nei,ʻaʻole e kau ma luna o ka puʻuwai o ka "saba" Hoʻohaku, akā, e kōkua iā ia e hoʻomaopopo i loko o ke ola, e hamama ai i kā mākou palekana mai ka pōpilikia, a no ka hana ia e like me ka maʻamau aloha hoalawepu. Hoolohe E hoi implicitly paulele, a hoolohe io aku no "kekahi keena", hoʻomaopopo i ka mea, ua makemake wale no ka maikai. Kēia mau ike pono mea pili ana i kahi hookahi. Hoʻohaku Kahalaopuna kuleana no ka "lalo", a me ka mea hope, ma ka huli, ua imi e e ka ola o ka "luna" me kahi momona a me hiki a me ka puaʻa. Inā Hoʻohaku - kanaka, manaʻo,ʻaʻole paha e like me ka palapala pilina makemake na wahine? He He pilina kūkuluʻia ma luna o piha hilinaʻi a me ka openness, ma nā hoa a pau kuleana no kekahi i kekahi. Ke kanaka, - i ka mea nana ka waiwai, i ka hoopakele ae, a me ka hoalawehana na - mea ole i na wahine e imi ana no? Ke kaikamahine nana me kėia, Kākoʻo a me ka hoʻolohe - aole e pono ia i kela kanaka keia kanaka?

O ka holo ana, aia nō kekahi maoli ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa māhele ma BDSM. Ke ano nā ka manaʻo o ka sadism a me ka masochism, a pinepine mau kiʻina hana i hoʻohana like me ka hoopai ana no ka misdemeanor "saba", ai wale me he leʻaleʻa ke keka. Eia naʻe, ma 'aneʻi, e ike ana i ke ana, a hoonoho iho la mōakāka ka rula, e hiki ke ike i ka Awaits, no ka mea, o kela mea keia kaikamahine manao e no loa ai i ke kanaka i mea ano maoli ma ka BDSM, a he pohihihi keia i loko o ka moʻoleloʻaoʻao, ma kahi he mea mistrust, i ka hoopunipuni a me ka luku mau kino i o na huapalapala aumeume.

Ka walaʻauʻana me nā loina o BDSM

Ka hapanui o kanaka Kama'āina me, a ina ho omńkalakala i acronyms BDSM, ia mea loa vague, e like me ka poe manaoio i ka hahai ana i keia subculture mea mentally maʻi, a me ka nele o ka 'inikua' uao emi aku ana lakou. Eia naʻe, ua manao ka prevalent a pau ma luna o ka honua no ka mea, o ka mea haʻahaʻa kiʻekiʻe o erudition ana o kanaka a me ka nānaina ka hōʻike o ka 'ike mai ka Media.

Aia i ekolu walaʻauʻana me nā loina, haawiia keia i ka inoa pōkole SSC, i ukali ia e nā mea a pau i ka "hahai" o BDSM. Deciphering ka mea puni hoʻi: maluhia, sanity, no ka naau mai. E like me 'oe ke ike, BDSM Ahaolelo ina ka mea, e ia i loko o ka BDSM pilina, ka loa kupono a me ka maluhia no nā hoa. E mākou noonoo rula kēlā me kēia i loko o hou au mamuli.

I ka rula o ka palekana

Kēia mea he kumu rula i e alakaʻi mau poʻo, (Hoʻohaku) ma ka BDSM. Deciphering ia mea:ʻo nā papa kiʻekiʻe e ike i ke kumu o ke o ka'anatomia, lapaʻau, physiology, ke kālaikūlohea a me ka kemika e flegallyatsiya a me nā BDSM 'ana i kūpono a pau loa palekana no ka "lalo". Me oe e ike, e e "i loko o ke kumuhana laina," nele i ka nui loa o ka naauao a me ka akamai pū nō hoʻi, no laila, i ole e hana ino aku ia i kou hoa.

I ka rula o na ano

Kekahi mea nui manaʻo i loko o BDSM, ke kumukuai o ka a, nae, oʻano paʻakikī e hooholo. sanity rula mai nei i ka hana e e wale ua mau epekema ma ka mea e kani ai na hoalawehana i aʻoʻana iā Kalani, i ole ia ka mea hiki ke alakai i ka lono kaumaha hopena. O na mea a manaʻo ka mea, i lumaʻi ana, hehi iho, keia rula pono mau ia he makakoho.

voluntarism

Keia rula hanaʻano nui me ke kōkua o ka holo ana hua'ōlelo. "Lower" makemake hoʻoili i ka pono, e hehi ihola au iā ia iho i kahi hookahi, akā, i aʻole i manaʻo 'ia ka "luna" hiki ke hana ka mea ana i makemake. All kiʻina hana i like loa me haawi leʻaleʻa i nā hoa maikai, ole BDSM Ahaolelo ke huli i loko o ka banal wahi lulu popilikia. Stop hua'ōlelo kōkua i "lower" e e mea ike i kona "haku", e kali i ua hiki, a ia mea manawa, e hooki aku.

Ua oki-olelo a me kona manaʻo i loko o BDSM

E like me ua oleloia, i ka holo ana, olelo o ke kumu i ka "lalo" e ole e koiia mai e involuntary, i ke koloheia. Aia i kekahi mau manao e pili ana i ka holo ana hua'ōlelo i loko o BDSM: deciphering ia no kekahi o ia hoʻi, he hoailona ia e hooki, akā, i kēia hoʻokokoke ka hewa me ka manao i ke "lalo".

Na wale pololei ka hoohalike ana o ka holo ana hua'ōlelo Ua like penei: lohe ia, "luna" e koke ana i nā hana o knm a me ka loa hookuu i ka "lalo". Inā mākou e he lei analogy, i kēia'ōlelo o ka mea like no ka holo ana moa ma luna o ka huakaʻi, ma mua o ka polite noi e ana, no ka mea, a hiki ina ka "luna" manaoio i noho i kakahiaka nui, me kona mau hoa i e loa okoa manao, a me ka mea, e laweʻia i loko o no.