Bizarre mea, ma i kanaka manaoio, e lawe mai ana i na keiki

Me ka hoʻomōhala a me ka loli no ka hoʻololi 'ana i kino i ka i nā keiki a me ka hoʻonaʻauao' ana ma luna o ka manawa parenting styles. He nui o kēia mau loli i aie i ka mea i 'epekema, aole ia e ku malie oukou, a progresses, ma ka nui, ua mea e pili ana iʻike manaʻo e kamailio pu ana. Kekahi o ka hoʻonaʻauao ki ina hana like i hoʻohanaʻia e nā mākua i kā lākou mau keiki, ke kālā no nā mākua ka weli o ka XXI kenekulia. He nui parenting i kūpono i i noʻonoʻo maʻamau no kekahi mau hanauna aku nei, i loko o kēia manawa e manaoia,ʻaʻole e like me ka malihini upbringing, akā, me he piha-fledged keiki hainā. E i ka nana aku i ka na kanaka i Ua hiki ke holo i loko o kēia wahi.

H ÷ ike o ke aloha ke hao i ka keiki

I ke kakahiaka nui iwakalua kenekulia, i ka manao e uhi maoli instincts na wahine a me ka mai i uku he nui loa noonoo ana i na keiki, no ka mea, ina eʻauʻau i ke keiki i loko o kona iho aloha, oeʻana ia. No ka mea, o keia hanauna o ka makuwahine obsolete Aha hoole ana i ka honi a me ka pali a me kā lākou poʻe keiki. Behaviorist Dzhon Uotson i ka 1928 ia i ka 'aoʻao o ka oi aku ka ikaika manaʻo i ke keiki ke alakai i ka undesirable hopena. E like me ia ia ia, o ka makuwahine o ka aloha - keia mea he mea pepehi kila e hiki i kahi eha, i e, aole loa hoola, i kaʻeha a ke e wā kamaliʻi pöʻino, a me ka makua ola - he no. He i kahi mea paahana e hiki luku mai i kekahi keiki ka hiki wale mai no i ka maʻamau 'oihana a me ka' ohana ke ola. Watson mai la i na makua e loa ae i ke keiki, e noho ma luna o lākou uha. Inā pono, e loaʻa nā mākua, e honi i ka bebe kēlā lā, ma ka lae ma mua ka hele ana i kahi moe. Na makua i ka lulu lima ana me na keiki i loko o ke kakahiaka. Ka mea, ke pat i kekahi keiki ma luna o ka poʻohiwi a pat ma luna o kona wahi i ke poo, ina Makuakane i ke keiki a me ka paʻakikī loa kēia lā.

E hiamoe ana pēpē i ka wahahee poo i ka akau

Kaʻumikumamāiwa kenekulia - i ka wā o ka pseudoscience. Ikeia examples i phrenology, i ka hana o ka hoomaopopo ana i ke ano o ke kanaka i ka wahine paha, i loko o ka palapala o kona poʻo, a me iridology, he nä känaka 'epekema ka mea i manaoia e diagnose maʻi i loko o kānaka no kā lākou mau haumana. Iloko o keia manawa, ka poe i manaoio ma ka likeʻole ma o ka dubious manaʻo i supposedly he mau aʻa ma ka 'epekema. A ua pili no hoi mau pseudoscientific & okua ia i na keiki. A like ana i mālama 'ia e Kauka Henry Kennedy, a paʻiʻia i loko o kona puke ma ka 1878, hoike mai i na keiki e moe poo i ke kūkulu'ākau ina lakou poe makuwahine makemake ia e ulu i ola.

Inu ole i ka waina i hāpai keiki i ke kūmau

Hoikehonua makuwahine ike i ka inu waiʻona i hāpai keiki ua pololei papaia, e like me ka mea i alakai i ka fetal waiʻona maʻi pale, akā, i ka pilina ma waena o ka waiʻona hokii, a me ka hāpai keiki i ole, ua aʻo i loko o au mamuli a hiki i 1973. A hiki i ka manawa, he wahine o ka 'elele i hoopauia ka waiʻona i hāpai keiki. Hoi, ka mea i wale i i papaia e inu i ka waina i hāpai keiki. Ua Ua hiki pono e hakakä kakahiaka maʻi.

keiki, a hiki i inu i ka waiʻona

'Aʻole wale nō hapai na wahine inu waiʻona, ua wahi ia mua e like me kana mau keiki i ka makuahine, i hānai ka waiʻona. Na kanaka o ia manawa i manaoio aku i ka waiʻona mai ke nui pono ia ma luna o ke kino. Alcohol ua ai kaulana inu ana ma Harvard University ma kaʻumikumamāhiku kenekulia i hiki kona iho brewery, a me nā haumāna me ka enviable uku hoʻopauʻia kona huahana. He nui o na keiki i inu waiʻona, a hiki no nae ia i ua nāu kekahi me ka wai.

Keiki 'aʻole' ae e kolo

I XVII-XVIII kenekulia, keiki malamaia lakou nei, me'āhihi nā mākua, a me ka mea i kiola i ulu mai me ka hikiwawe e loaa. Kona kahu, ua lōʻihi a me ka ololi. People manaoio ia ina he keiki, aole ia i unuhi i loko o kona mau wawae, ia u i e straighten ia lakou, e hoolilo ana ia oi waiwai nui, a ae i ke keiki, e hoʻomaka e hele koke. Kolo i ike i kekahi mea holoholona, nolaila, i ae. Childrenʻaʻahuʻia i ka lole hooluelue, ka poe i ole ae ia e kolo. Male i pau ai kekahi mau kenimika ma lalo o nā wāwae.

Mom, Ua hewa ia no na mea a pau

Mom, he kino kuleana no ka loa a pau, e hoʻomaka ana me ke ola ana o ke keiki, a pau me kona mau helehelena. He nui no na mea i ka makuwahine ke hana hewa no kāu keiki, me ka nānā 'ana ma ia mea Kahalaopuna a me ka mea e nana. Ua Ua manaoio aku i ka makuwahine ka mea i imi iʻinoʻino mea i hāpai keiki, e hana i kona bebeʻinoʻino. Ua Ua pū manaoio aku i ka makuahine, ke loli i ka pēpē i ka ola ma kā lākou e pili ana i ia ia.

Childrenʻauʻau i ka momona

I ka lā, kanaka lawe i ka auau a hele aku i kekahi mau manawa ua auanei o ka hebedoma, akā, i kēia mea he kŘpa a hou una. I ka nui o kou niho i ole ua maopopo maopopo a i ka hopena o ka umikumamaiwa kenekulia. Ma ka huli ana o ka iwakālua kenekulia e pili ana i kou niho hoomaka ae la e hoʻololi, aka, na makua mea nō noho nani weird manaʻo kōkua e pili ana ana ka mea pono, e auau i kou bebe. Books e pili ana i parenting i ia manawa i ka manao kapa pēpē momona, e like me lard, aila oliva a me ka bata. Kona kaikea a ua pono i ka mea e wehe i ka waxy ka penaʻana, a me ka mea a ke keiki e hānau. Ke kamaiki ke ole auau me ke kopa a me ka wai ma mua a hiki i ka manawa ia,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e ola mahope aku o ma ka liʻiliʻi loa o ka hebedoma.

Ka mea, ua pono e hahai i ke kahu

Mawaena o ka richestʻohana ua nui loa, he pono ole ma waena la ia i kahu nāna i hoʻopakele i nā wāhine mai nā discomforts a pau o ka breastfeeding. O na wahine i hānai lākou mau keiki ma luna o lākou iho, ka mea, ua nō ma waena kekahi i hiki ke kōkua iā lākou. Mau kahu loa pinepine mai ilihune mauʻohana, no laila, ka mea e mau nana aku la au me ka hoʻohuoiʻia. Makua alakaʻi i kakahiaka nui iwakalua kenekulia i ao mai na makua e pili ana ia mea, i ole haʻalele me ka noonoo ana i ka wahine e noho ana me kā lākou poʻe keiki.

Keiki aʻo mai potty

Ma ka hopena o umikumamaiwa a me ka i kakahiaka nui iwakalua kenekulia, ua ho'āʻo na makua, e ao aku keiki potty. Part o ke kumu o ua mea hiki: i ua ia manawa,ʻaʻole i disposable diapers, a me ka holoi lole diapers i ka hailona o ka manawa, a ua kapa ia he Hobby ua maikai ole i ke Akua. Ua Ua manaoio no hoi i ka hooponopono ana o ka meaʻaiʻai ana, a moe i ke keiki, e ao aku i ke keiki i ke ao nei, aole ia i revolve a puni ia.

Aia ua kaʻa keiki noho i

Noho mau hipuu i kaa ka mea,ʻaʻole i lohe nui ia a hiki i ke kanalima o ka hope ke kenekulia, a hiki laila ka mea i ike i accessories, a i loaʻa ma ka noi, a me na ohua i i koi 'ia e komo. I ka lā, e lawe hou kaiapuni no na keiki ka poe holo ma ka hi, a ina i ke keiki i ole ma ka kekahi kiʻekiʻe a me ka makahiki,ʻo ia ua koiia e hele i ka kūikawā kaʻa noho. Akā, no ka hapanui o ka iwakalua kenekulia, e holo ana i loko o ke kaʻa i ka mea pepehi hoike ia, o ka oi aku no nā kamaliʻi.

hilinai oe ia oe iho

Oe i ka hoowalewaleia, e heluhelu i ka puke ma parenting, a hiki a hiki mai ia, akā, oe e hoomanao oe i keiki-hānai kapu 'ana i kūpono i mau hoʻololi. Kekahi o ka mea maikai kōkua no ka hooulu ana i na keiki, e hiki ke 'imi i loko o ka buke o Dr. Beniamina Spock, "ke keiki a me ka mālama ana iā ia." Ma kona 'oi-kuai puke Spock ka nani a na makua i ka mea pono hoolohe mai i kou instincts. Oe e manaoio no oukou i loko o oe ia oe iho, no ka mea, e ike nui aku ma mua o kou hiki hoi i noonoo ai.