Direct - he kanaka mai ka kamaliʻi?

I hana ai 'oe a mau loa aku ke koikoi no kāu keiki, ka mea i hiki ke ninau nui: "No ke aha la ka lede no laila, momona?" A "No ke aha la hana kekahi makua kāne i lauoho ma luna o kona poʻo?" Most paha,ʻo ia. Children kamaʻilioʻana, e hele lakou iho, me he mea la e ole rula o ka'ē a me ka civility kanawai.

Nolaila, i ke kanaka ia ia iho - o ka mea nana i "ʻoki i ka oiaio-opu" i loko o ka maka a me ka olelo i kona manao. Ka mea pono, ina ia mau hana 'ana i loko o ka o kēia au nei? Na Google e olelo e pili ana i loko o kēia wahi.

Nohea la e hiki mai ai ka immediacy

"Mākou a pau he mau pono i kekahi manawa," - o ka hopuna'ōlelo kani kokoke kaumaha, no ka poe noonoo ole kumu i loaʻa mea uuku koke i waena o nā mākua. Noho 'ana kamaliʻi - oiai eia aʻe, ka manaoio i na hana mana, a me ka frankness openness. "Direct" - ia mea nō maʻamau na keiki makamake nui a me ka mau loa "no ke aha la" a pau a puni a me ka hana lealea. Eia naʻe, e hoailona oukou ia i kakahiaka nui meʻewalu i ka umi makahiki o ke keiki haalele i kona oiaio. He hoʻomaka e hńwanawana me kou mau hoa, e noho malie, a hiki ina ka mea, he nīnau, e malama i kekahi mea ma ka naau, a mai i ka hoike i ko lakou mau manaʻo. No ke aha la pela? Loa noonoo ole. Na makua, mea aʻo, a me nā mea a pau hoʻopuniʻia e nā kao hoopiha ia ia i ke kanaka ia ia iho - keia mea ino. Eʻoiaʻiʻo - ka mea, 'o ia hoʻi, e e impolite, hawawa koʻu, hewa. No ka muli o kona kulana Logical a straightforward nīnau pēpē hiki E'ō'ū, paʻi, e hai aku ia ia, e pani mai. Nā mākua o ianei i ke keiki i ka hihia, a ua aʻo aku ai iā ia e koke aʻo i nā rula o ko keia ao. A nolaila, ke immediacy wahi aku me ka liʻiliʻi, a UAIAaIN ma ka hookamani.

Immediacy i loko o nā mākua

Like aku la o Elena Ermolaeva, spontaneity a me ka naturalness - kēia mau ano sverhelitarny, a me ka mea hiki ke hoʻolimalima ole a pau. Mea oiaio. Mākou UAAIIeIA a stereotyped ao nei aole e aloha kekahi i ka openness a me ka honesty. He mea nui oi maoli i ka moe, e hai aku i ka wahahee, e malama noho malie ma mua o ia e pololei. ʻO kekahi kumu ku pono ana i ka noho 'ana kamaliʻi kula. Ma ka kekahi lima, ua kēia manawa, a laila, ike i ka hopena o ka immediacy. People Open haha nui na mea, kaʻawaʻawa loa, ka mea, ua kokoke e makau a me ka mai i makemake. Manao wale ia mākou alo, e olelo aku i ka mea a mākou manaʻo, i kona mauʻoi aʻe nō hoʻi, tescham a me ka makuwahine, kumu, na hoalauna, a me na makua? Mai manaʻo Mai i nā hua'ōlelo e e hōʻino, ka mea, ke pono Emotions. No, poʻe makaʻu i ka oiaio, aka, no ka mea, o ka hapa nui ka makemake o nā e malama malie wale "i loko o ka Rag." Direct kanaka paha, a loaa i ka nele o "ulterior, akä,", akā, aneane hauʻoli me Pehea ka mea, ua ike ia e na mea e ae.

ka downside

He nui nā kanaka i hookahuli ai spontaneity me kona mea e like backlinks. Inā ka immediacy - ka mea, Aloha maoli, ka mea aole e imply i kekahi mea hewa i ka hoalauna, excessive naau kupono, e moe ana ma kolohe - ka mea, he ino pūʻulu kāna moʻolelo.

Mau ano e pilikia i ka hui. Direct kanaka ola pono, au loa ninau he nui loa, a mai ka hewa i ka kanaka. ʻo ia, aole i hai aku ia i ka piha lede "me ka manaʻo maikaʻi,": "E makemake e momona," akā,ʻo ia hiki ole ia oe ke huna i kona mau manao ia noi no ia. Direct poʻeʻakaʻaka, e hea, hoi me ka mea'ōlelo i ka naau, i kānāwai mau kino. Hama, snapper kala nā palapala i ka hui, aole e hapai i kekahi maikai a lilelile kanaka.

Nā pono o ka immediacy

No laila, e ike i ka manaʻo, ka mea hiki ke manao ia ua immediacy. Akā, he mea maikaʻi kēia he mea e like ai? Ia, aole ia i hana ino i ke kauoha i ka hana ana o ke kanaka me ka manao i kona kaiāulu? Loa paha i. Pono, maoli aloha hiki ole hoʻopilikia maoli paha ālai ia 'aʻe. Kaupalena naʻe, i ke kanaka eha oia ia ia iho ia ia i hiki ole ke olelo i ka ma luna o kona naau a me ka naau. Ke kanaka ia ia iho - o ka mea nana e hoʻomōhala ana i, uku i ka waiwai auhau i ka mea i iho, a, ma hope, ka pomaikai. E maoli a me ka koke.