He aha oukou e hanaʻi pela tact? He aha ka tact? kōkua maikaʻi kėia manawa

He aha oukou e hanaʻi pela tact? He aha ka tact? E tactful 'aʻole i manaʻo e hūnā mea oe anei haha. Ka mea, 'o ia hoʻi, e hoike i ko lakou mau manaʻo i loko o ia ke alanui i ka hana ia oi uʻi a me ka noho malie hoi. Inā 'oe makemake e ike pehea e e tactful, heluhelu i kēia' atikala.

E tactful oiai e kamailio ana

Manaʻo mua oe e olelo aku. Ae oe ia oe iho, e kakali ana i ka manaʻo o kāu mau olelo hiki ke ike, a me ka ole wikiwiki māmala'ōlelo e hōʻike ana. E i kekahi manawa e houluulu mai i kona mau manao. E noi ia oe iho ina keia mea i ka manawa pono e hoike i ko lakou mau manao. E lohe i na kanaka a puni oe. Oe hiki ke kūlana e e ka manaʻo hoʻopuka e pili ana i ka mai ana mai ahaaina mare mai pehea e loaa, akā, ma ka hope aku kekahi o ka poe i hiki mai e hele ma i kāu mau oki mare. Kohoʻia hūnā i kona ohohia a pau ka manawa, akā, e hiki ke 'imi i ka momona manawa, a boee kūpono listeners e ike i kou pomaikai.

Mai pane io i ka io

Inā e hoike aku i ke kūkākūkā o kekahi kanaka, mai lawe i kaʻeleu loa i loko o ke kūkākūkā. No ina oe e makemake mai e lawe i kekahiʻaoʻao a me kekahi. Ka pono koho makemake e, e olelo aku i kekahi meaʻoluʻolu ia i ka helu wahi o ke kanaka ma lalo o kūkākūkā.

E hoʻomaka ana me ka maikai

Inā 'oe e hele e olelo aku i kekahi meaʻawaʻawa loa, no kekahi laʻana, kuhikuhi mai kekahi hewa i loko o ka hana ana o ke kauwā, oe e hoʻomaka ana me ka maikaʻi. i kekahi mea e like oe ke olelo aku: "E makou i ka maikai mau, i aa e lawe i ua i ka nui a me ka luna 'papahana, akā, aʻu e manaʻo neiʻoe e e hiki ke hoʻokō' ia me ke kōkua o ka hoao ana i ka mea nana e kokua i wale." Koho i kana mau olelo ke akahele. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i ia mea i ka i ka pono o ka tact? He ka hiki i ka huli hua'ōlelo i e ole ka hewa i ka interlocutor.

Mai Mai hōʻike aku i kou, a nā kanaka i ka mea huna

Mai kiʻi he hilinai a me ka haʻi aku i nā lāliʻi o kona kino ola malihini kanaka. 'Aʻole i pau i ka pāpana. He aha mea o ka malu o ka mea ike elua? He ua lehulehu ike. Ka mea pohihihi, a hiki i ka loa i hilinaʻi ai maikaʻi hoa, e ia i ke kumuhana o ke kamailio ana ma ka okoa poe, a hiki ina ka mea, ua i kapaʻia kou inoa. E like me ka mea i hookuu i ka hihia: "oe i ike, i kekahi o koʻu hoa i hiki mai ai kekahi manawa ..."

E kaʻeleu lohe a me ka hōʻihi

Ua nui loa ke keʻena o ke ana o ka hiki i ka hoʻolohe. 'Oe ke kapa he maikai loa conversationalist, a ina oe i ole olelo. I kekahi manawa ia mea nui, e hoolohe i ke kanaka pono, me ka 'aʻole, keia manawa, e kamailio e pili ana i ka mahalo, i mea like nui me ke kui. He aha ka piety? 'O kēia kekahi o nāʻano nui eiiiiiaiou o'ē. Mai ae oe ia oe iho i ka obscene 'ōlelo mua na lunakahiko a kanaka au i ike pono. Mua, ka mea e nānā ino. Ka lua, ia mea unethical.

He aha oukou e hanaʻi pela tact? He aha ka tact? He ka hiki, e hai aku i ka oiaio, hāʻawi mai i nā manaʻo, a hiki reactions o nā kanaka. Ua palahalaha manaʻo kikowaena nui loa na mea, me ka mea naʻau akamai, ka mahalo, ke aloha, aloha, maalea, honesty, diplomacy a me kaʻana. Ua kokoke i ka 'ōlelo hōʻike i ke ano, waiwai nui, professionalism a me ka maikaiʻano.