Pakiko-mahi, ʻike manaʻo
I ka papa kuhikuhiE kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho. Kāohiʻana o adolescent he pepehi anaʻia iā iho
He pepehi anaʻia iā iho (he pepehi anaʻia iā iho) - o ka hōʻole o ke ola ia iho ma luna o ka mohai kumu, me ke komo ana o kekahi poe. Eia naʻe, i loko o ke kālā no hui, he ano o ka maluhia iho la hoike a me ke ola nei he pinepine. Nā kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho paha e loa okoa, he kanaka i ka hoʻoholo 'ana ma luna o ke kumu o kekahi ola hihia o ka manaʻoʻike a me ka pilina pilikia o.
Ka pilikia o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho
Hihia o ka maluhia iho la hoike a me ke ola ma na aoao he nui e loaʻa i loko o nā palapala mōʻaukala ma nā kahua o ka hoʻonaʻauao o? Acaeoey o na kanaka lāhui. Makamua Greece, Kahiko Rome, a China i loko o kā lākou mauʻoihana e hōʻike 'ia i ka mea e hana he pepehi anaʻia iā iho.
Like o kēia lā, he pepehi anaʻia iā iho o kekahi o ka 10 loa pinepine kumu o ka make i loko o ke Komohana. Wahi a ka 'ikepili helu, kēlā makahiki i ka 160.000 kanaka nā hualoaʻa a hana he pepehi anaʻia iā iho. Ke poi pu helu o ia - e nā pōkiʻi. Ma keia hihia, kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, nā mākua a me nā adolescents, hiki e loa ai okoa, ka mea i noho ma ka pāʻoihana a aʻo i loko o kanaka ola, a me ka paulele i ka hoʻomana.
Ua Ua manaoio ia he pepehi anaʻia iā iho - he hoailona o ka nawaliwali, withdrawal ola mau pilikia mai. I ka mea, ma ka mea e hana ana ia mau i kanawai, ia mea e pono ia i ka ikaika makemake a me ka paulele i loko o kā lākou mau hana.
He pepehi anaʻia iā iho: na hoailona
E like me ka haʻawina, 75% o ka poʻe hoʻoneʻe ai i ka hana he pepehi anaʻia iā iho Hehe hōʻike ko lakou mau manao. Ka mea, ua like hamama olelo hooweliweli a me ka maalea eʻauʻa o forthcoming he pepehi anaʻia iā iho. Kokoke a pau o kēia mau kanaka kipa psychologists, ka nohona poe hana, kauka a me na kumu, mai i ka mea hiki e manao ia ka mea i ho'āʻo i ka olelo. Eia naʻe, ma ka hapanui o na hihia ka mea, i ole loaa ia lakou ka makemake, no ka mea, o ka mea i hoʻololi i kā lākou mua manao kuka.
Na hoailona o ka n ieaie? He pepehi anaʻia iā iho i hoikeia ma ka noho, aʻikeʻia i loko o ke ano o ka duality. Ma ka kekahi lima, ka mea, haha Ka Ho 'Oponopono, a ma ka mea' ē aʻe, me ka manao no ke ola. Ma ka hapanui o na hihia, na pros a me ka hooluolu ana o ia ka hana e pono 'O ke kaulike külana. Pinepine, e hiki ke kōkua me na mea olelo o ke kākoʻo. Inā keia ua ole ke hana, ka unahi tipped i loko o ka lokomaikai o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho. Ia mea ke kumu ia mea ai nui e ike i na hoailona ana i ia kakou ke ike e pili ana i ka lokoʻino a he pepehi anaʻia iā iho.
Na hoailona i hana, hoʻi a me ka nohona, a me na kumu no ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho hiki e kekahi.
Ka mua na hoailona o ka pūʻulu ia mau i kona a me ka unhealthy hoʻomakeʻaka e pili ana i ka make, a me ka hana e hoike mai ai ia ia iho i loko o ka ulia o ka makana o ke kino 'ikamu. Ua pū nā alakaʻiʻana e pili ana i ka pepa, hana, e hoolaulea aku ai me na kanaka, me pono me kaʻoi loli a kohu pono 'ana. Situational symptoms hoike mai ai ia lakou iho i loko o ka lawelawe hoʻokaʻawale, koke ulia i loko o ka 'ohana, alcoholism.
Ke kumu nui no suicides
Ke kālailai i nā kumu o ka 'ikepili helu he pepehi anaʻia iā iho Ua mai nei i ke kumu nui i waena o ia mea:
- makahiki hoʻoponopono ulia;
- apuupuu noʻonoʻo ke kanaka me kāna hana;
- nāu kekahi me ka wahine / kane;
- make ana o ka wahine;
- hemahema o ka ohana;
- he maʻi;
- hemahema o ka hoʻokō ';
- loneliness.
Wahi a ka 'ikepili helu, 30% hana e hai he pepehi anaʻia iā iho ho'āʻo ma hope o ka manawa, oiai 10% i hanaia. Eia hou kekahi, hoao mai ana e moe he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, ua palapalaia mai i 6 manawa hou aku paha ma mua o pau suicides.
ʻepekema, ua hōʻike 'i ke kamepiula pūʻulu, ma ka manawa kūpono o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho nei me ka nui loa oi aku ma mua ia o na kanaka. Mau nā:
- kanaka, e alakai ka noho kaʻawaleʻana o ke ola, ka ai-kapaia hookahi;
- adolescents me kāna hana o interpersonal pili;
- People e hoʻomāʻewaʻewa mai ka waiʻona paha narcotics;
- kanaka me kekahi karaima, a deviant hana;
- People me kiʻekiʻe ka hoʻoponopono-noʻonoʻo loi like pono me koʻu hoomanawanui ana'ku ia mai kekahi mau indignities;
- poe ka poe i loaa ia i ka poho o ka mea i aloha ai;
- Loira me ka hāʻule pohō wale a me nā mākua e loaa ana mai ka neurosis.
A pau i nā kumu no ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho e i manaʻoʻike a me ka nohona kēia lākiō.
Ka manaʻoʻike kēia lākiō o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho
Deep kaua i loko o ke kanaka, akä, e alakai i ka hoao e hana he pepehi anaʻia iā iho. pinepine manaʻoʻike kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i ka uhukiia ma kakahiaka kamaliʻi ke kanaka. Nō kāu, keia authoritarian makua i hōʻike excessive lokoino i loko o ka hoʻonaʻauao. Pinepine i ka hopena o ke kīnā o ke aggression ma adulthood, i ka wa a ke kanaka e imi i ko lakou ola kulana home 'ole i ka hoʻololi' ana i. Inā hiki ole e loaʻa i ka mea o ka aggression, ka mea e pili ana i ka loa paha, ka 'mea alakai i ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho.
Kekahi manaʻoʻike kēia lākiō o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho pili hysterical a demonstrative ka hōʻike 'ana me ka. E like me ka rula, ka mea, o ka makemake e manipulate i kekahi kanaka. No ka laʻana, ua hiki ke lawe i ka nui mahele lāʻau o ka hiamoe ana huaale, me ka manao ana ia, e hoola mai, a me ka pili ana ia ia i ke kanaka uʻi i ka hoʻololi. A i 'ole he kanaka hiki consciously komo i loko o pilikia o kēia lāhui kanaka, pela hooikaika e ho ololi i na Emotions o kona aloha. Pehea mamao hiki i kekahi kanaka i loko o lākou ko lākou aʻo nō i ka manipulate, 'aʻole i hiki i ia ia iho. Akā, me ka manaʻo, akä, o ka hana consciously, ka emi lono kaumaha hopena.
Kekahi manaʻoʻike kumu no he pepehi anaʻia iā iho - ka mea makemake, e hoʻopaʻi inattention. A kanaka ma keia kulana, ka mea nani i kanaka, e mihi nui iho la mihi i kona hana ma hope o kona make ana. Eia naʻe, i kēia mea,ʻaʻole i ke kumu no kekahi kumu i loko o ka lanakila, ka poe ana i manao e hoopai, e like me ka rula,ʻaʻole loa ua hoano e ia i ka holo mai ke ola. Mau mea i ka papa kuhikuhiE kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i loko o nā mākua a me adolescents, a me ka hapanui o ka mea pili opiopio kanaka o ka kekahi elemakule.
Ka nohona, ao ke ano o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho
Suicides hiki e wahi ole wale psychologically. Social kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i ole i emi nui külana. Kekahi o ka iniiaiieʻaneʻi - ia mea he hoʻomana. Loa pinepine ka mea hana i nā kānāwai uhane e kapa aku ai, e aloha aku i ko kakou hoalauna, he hoʻonui i mahuahua maloko hoʻopilikia. Oia anakahi uila ke kumu no ke kue i ke kanaka ia ia iho, i ka wa e huli aggression e ku e ia ia. Eia hele mai i ka manaʻo o ka hewa a me ke ola, mai ia. Ma keia hihia, he mea i manaʻo i e e hoopaiia kekahi hewa, e kauoha ana i kekahi kanaka hoʻomaka e hoʻokokoke aku i ka lā o ka helu.
Kekahi nohona kēia lākiō o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho ua inflating i kona mau mea nui. Kēia kahua He typical i loko o ia hihia, ka wā he mea he make ana o ka 'ohana. Ola kai hoʻomaka e mahi i ka pono o ka hewa, a me ke kiʻekiʻe o ke hele mai i ka manaoio i kona make ana, e ia ka mea wale ala e e mai no ka mea.
Oia mau manaʻo, he pono ole i na mea he nui kanaka, akā,ʻaʻole kela kanaka keia kanaka ke lawe mai i ko lakou mau manao kuka o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho lawe mai.
Nā kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho (Durkheim)
Kekahi o na kumu nui kākoʻo o ka nohona kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho o ka Palani sociologist Emil Dyurkgeym. E like me kona kumumanaʻo, i ke kaiāulu kanaka, lilo i ke kumu o ka bulk o suicides.
Durkheim manaoio i ka mea, heʻano o ka nohona ike paka, dictating i kanaka pehea e noho. No ka laʻana, he kanaka hiki ke hele mai i ka hopena e oia i aole ia e pono ke ola, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe hale a me ka hana. A pau o ka nui kumu o suicides Ua maʻi hēhē ia i hoʻokahi - loneliness. I ka mea pushes ke kanaka e nana i ke ola buke.
'Aʻole iʻaelike ai me ka manaʻoʻike kumu o he pepehi anaʻia iā iho, Durkheim i ka mea kēia mea: ma ka home no ka mentally ino kanaka, ua nui na wahine ma mua o nā kānaka. Naʻe, ka mea, o ka hope hana 80% o nā mea a pau suicides. Nō hoʻi,ʻo ia hoʻopaʻapaʻa, a me ka manao o na poe kokua o ia suicidal ili. Ke sociologist mai nei i na kanaka a me na wahine i ka loaa ia ia kau ana o nā'ōewe, akā, ia mea he ikaika Luna o ke kanaka pinepine lawe i ko lakou mau ola iho.
Nā kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i loko o na kanaka E like me ia Durkheim, ia mea e pōʻai. Ka mea, e i hoʻopili like i nā kūmau o ke kaiāulu, mai i loaʻa i kaʻohana a ole i, nolaila, ua o ole hoʻohana i ka kaiāulu.
Ano o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho Durkheim
Sociologist maheleia i loko o kekahi mauʻano o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho. Kumu no ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho kumu, ka mea hilinaʻi nui ma luna o konaʻano.
Penei, ekolu ano o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho Durkheim:
- kanaka p',;
- altruistic;
- anonimichesky.
Kanaka p',ʻano ia lŘlŘ ka wā i kekahi kanaka uaʻalo me ka hikiʻole, e lawa pono ai ka pilikino p', e pono ai. No ka laʻana, he kanaka i makemake i ou wahi lihi iki o ke dala a me ke kūlana kiʻekiʻe ma ka hui, akā, e mai i ka na waiwai e kū ai i ka pahu hopu. Ma keia hihia, o ka oi aku ina he mea ole kākoʻo, mai mea aloha, ka pahiki o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho ka loa kiʻekiʻe. Ma ka lokomaikai o kēia kumumanaʻo hiki aku ai i ka sociologist kiʻekiʻe helu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i waena o Kalawina i hai p'pono o pilikino enrichment.
ua kapaia he pepehi anaʻia iā iho Altruistic ka wā i kekahi kanaka ua kalaia me ke ola selflessly no ka 'ē aʻe. No ka laʻana, e like me ke kahua Ua hiki ka wā i hana 'ia he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i mea e loaaʻi ka ohana lapaʻau no ke ola o ka mea i make.
Anonimichesky he pepehi anaʻia iā iho me kekahi mau moku'āina o ke kaiāulu hou pili i ka wā ma laila loaʻa i oko ao, aʻaʻole hoʻi he pono a me ka pono? Aieao o ka hana. Durkheim manaoio i oi kokololio ulu ana o ke kaiāulu ke alakai i ka nuipa a he pepehi anaʻia iā iho. I keia uku, aole hoi he koena, i ka pu ma ka aneiai downturn, paha, ma ka mea ku ole, ala. Ma ka hihia mua, kanaka lawe i ko lakou mau ola no o ka lilo o ke kulanakauhale alii i loko o ka lua - no ka mea, manaʻo i 'ē aʻe e noho waiwai wikiwiki. Kēiaʻano o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho o keʻano o ke kanaka p', no ka mea, ua hilinaʻi nui ma luna o ka pilikino pono o ke kanaka.
He pepehi anaʻia iā iho i waena o adolescents
Awkward makahiki - o ka loa paakiki ke kahua ma ka kahua o ka makua kanaka. I mea no ke aha la i waena o keia makahiki pūʻulu ka loa kiʻekiʻe pakeneka o ka hana he pepehi anaʻia iā iho.
Nā kumu o ka adolescent he pepehi anaʻia iā iho e like penei:
- kāna hana e lawelawe me ka makua a me na makamaka;
- kaumaha ohana kulana home 'ole;
- hoohaahaa ana, ma kā lākou mau na¯;
- unrequited aloha.
Eia hou, i ka unformed kanaka uaʻelemakule 'ole ma o ka Media. E like me ka hopena, he mea pinepine he maluhia iho la o keʻai me ke ola me ka Mohai o punahele huapalapala mai nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni a me nā puke.
Other he pepehi anaʻia iā iho ke kumu no loira - o ka hoʻohana 'ana o ka waiʻona,ʻawahia paha narcotic waiwai, e like me kaumaha. Eia hou, i ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho hiki i ka make ana o ka 'ohana a me ka pili hoa a underachievement o ka hoʻopaʻi' ana. No kaikamahine na kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho hiki no hoi e kūlanakauhale a kakahiaka hāpai keiki.
Naʻe, i nā mea a pau he pepehi anaʻia iā iho o ka hopena o ka lono kaumaha ulia. I waena o adolescents halawai i ka manawaleʻa iā kanaka, 'aʻole e pono i loko o ka puni ike maopopo i ka hana i haha aku me na aea ia. Ia ka leo o ka hiki pahu ia ia ia i kekahi,ʻAʻole eʻole ka anu u.
Kāohiʻana o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i waena o nā pōkiʻi
Nā kumu o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho a me kā lākou Kāohi Ka mea, i kekahi o na mea nui pilikia o kaʻike manaʻo. He aha ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho , a pehea e pale aku ia, ia mea pono ke aʻo keiki, mai ka wanaʻao elemakule. Ia manawa, nui na makua pale aku i ke kumuhana, e manaoio ana aku i kā lākou mau keiki eʻaʻole pili i ka pilikia.
Kāohiʻana o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho i waena o adolescents ka 'āwīwī manaʻoʻike kōkua a me ka maikai komo. Eia hoʻi, ka mea, e lawe i ka mooolelo o ka kiʻekiʻe degere o ka suggestibility keia makahiki pae. Nā pōkiʻi ho i kona nani opiopio kino i loko o ka pahu, ke kaumaha o ka mea aloha, e like me ko lākou mau manaʻo o ka hewa. He nui ke dispel i kēia nā kaʻao, wehewehe a me ka hoike maopopo pehea e nānā ma hope o lākou i loaʻa ka mea. Ma ka hana ana ma keia hana, ia mea nui, e hoomanao i ka'ōpio kanaka i loa ikepili koʻikoʻi a me kā lākou naoh i kekahi olelo hiki e unpredictable. Ia mea ke kumu o ka hoopuka ana o teenage he pepehi anaʻia iā iho Kāohi mea ai nui ma ka i keia la o ka lehulehu.
He pepehi anaʻia iā iho a me ke kōkua
He nui ia e hiki ke kōkua i ke kanaka nana i hai mai i kona mau manao. Loa pinepine pono i kekahi mea kuleana, a me nā anamanaʻo kamailio ana, i loko o ka mea ana e e hiki, e hoike i ko lakou mau pilikia a me ka anxieties a pau. Oiaio panee ma luna o kou 'ana a me ka naauao, e kōkua i ka ike ana ia i mea ole indifferent ia oe. Kēia like ka loa e pono no i ke kanaka nana i hooholo i ka hana he pepehi anaʻia iā iho.
He mea pono e komo i loko oʻano o no laila, ua hoʻomaopopo loa kanaka i ka futility o ke Kanawai a me kona lua kupapaʻu hopena no na kanaka e kokoke ana i ona lā. Ia mea nui,ʻaʻole i ka hoike o ka hoohewaia'na, a, e hoʻomaikaʻi akuʻoe no ia openness, stressing e ho'āʻo e kōkua loaʻa i ke ala mai o ke kulana. Pinepine i kekahi ka oiaio kamaʻilio kōkua i ke kanaka e kiʻi mai o ka moku'āina o ka hohonu kaumaha, a ina oe e e haawi i ko lakou he pepehi anaʻia iā iho kuka, a ma ka liʻiliʻi loa ka hailonaʻana ia. A ka mea, e lilo ia i manawa e kōkua iā ia loa hoopoina e pili ana i ko lakou mau manao.
E like me ka rula, o ka manaʻoi hoʻoholo 'aʻole i hele mai koke, e lawe i ko lakou mau ola. I hookuu keia mea i ka hope mauu i loko o ka moʻo o ka pilikia i loko o ke ola. Nolaila, lawe malama o ka mea aloha, a i hiki ke foresee i ka pōʻino e hiki mai, oe e hoola kekahi mau ola.
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