Mahalo i kahi hoaaloha kanaka: ka mea mua a me ka ma'alahi

Loa'a i nā mea a pau i nā hoaaloha. A'o nā hoaaloha a pau i kēlā me kēia manawa, he mau lā ho'omaha e like me ka lā hānau a i'ole ka makahiki. He nui nā wāhine i loko o nā hoaaloha he mau'elele o ka hapanui ikaika o ka lāhui. A he nui ka hapanui o mākou e hālāwai me ka pilikia o ke'ano o ka ho'omākaukau'ana i ke aloha i kahi kāne kāne i kona lā hānau a i ka makahiki hānau paha. I ka mea a pau, makemake'oe e mahalo aku i ka pilikua o kāu hoaaloha, e'olu'olu iā ia a ho'opīhoihoi. Ke ho'omana'o nei au i kekahi mau mana'o maika'i no ka ho'okō'ana i kēia mana'o.

Mua o nā mea a pau, mau hoohiwahiwa i ka kekahi, he kanaka e hana, ina e makemake ia e hoomanao mau ia o kou kahaha ko oukou naau. Hiki iā'oe ke hūnā malū mai i kou hoaaloha e ho'omākaukau i kahi pā'ina me kahi pū'ali o kou mau hoaaloha a mau hoaaloha maika'i, a laila, e'olu'olu nā mea a pau. E hīmeni nā hoa e ho'onani a ha'i i ka leasts, i'ole e nele ka mea nāna e mālama. Hiki iā'oe ke pā'ani i kāu hoaaloha: pono'oe e ho'omākaukau i nā mea āpau a "hele pololei mai ke alanui a mai ka hale paha i hopu'ia'o ia e nā" māka'i "a lawe i ke keiki o ka lā hānau i ka hale'aina a me ka cafe, kahi e mana'o ai kona mau hoaaloha.

E ho'omākaukau i nā pā'ani a me nā paio no ka hō'eha'ole'ana o nā malihini i ka wai'ona, a i'ole e ho'omana'o i ka hopena o ka lā hānau.

Ma ke'ano hō'olu'olu i ka makahiki o kekahi hoaaloha, hiki iā'oe ke ho'omaka i kahi'aha'aina pā'ina me ka hō'ike,'o ka pōmaika'i i kēia manawa he polokalamu kamepiula a pilikino paha kēlā me kēia mea e ho'omākaukau ai. E lawe i nā ki'i hoihoi a nani a kāu hoaloha e lawe mai i ka ho'omana'o maika'i. I kēia mau ki'i, e ki'i mai me nā'ōlelo'olu'olu a laila e ho'omaka ka ahiahi i kahi nalu mana'o.

E a'o ai'ole e ho'okomo i loko o kahi kāleka nui nui i kahi mau nani nani e ha'i aku ai'oe i ka mahalo i kāu hoaaloha. No ka le'ale'a, e ho'omākaukau i kahi makana no ka Iubili - he pepa pepa mīkini. Ma ka wehewehe'ana o kēia'ōwili, e heluhelu ana ka mea hānau i kekahi mo'olelo pilikino i kākau'ia e'oe, a'aka'aka ho'i i nā ki'i ho'oweliweli. E kāpili i kahi mo'olelo pilikino me nā ki'i a pa'i'ia me ka pepa pa'a i ka lō'ihi o ka'ōwili. 'O kēia'ano "waiwai" a me ka makana mua e hō'olu'olu i ka lā hānau!

I ka manawa e ho'onani ai i ka hoaaloha kāne, mai poina e pili ana i nā malihini, inā paha e hō'eha lākou a ho'omaka e'imi i nā ho'okipa ma nā aniani. Oe ke pana aku au i he kūoʻo skits a me ka lealea. No ka la'ana, ma hope o ka hana'ana i ka mea ho'omana'o no ke aloha, e ho'opa'a i ka "aloha" i nā hakakā: e hamo i ka'alani i kekahi i kekahi me ka'ole o ke lima o nā lima a i'ole ka'ōmole i waena o nā wāwae; E wāwahi i ka makani balota.

'O ka mea nui,'a'ole e waiho wale i ke ahiahi wale nō, he mea pono e ho'okipa ma nā pā'ani a me ka ho'okani'ana. Inā 'aʻole' aʻole i lawa ka manaʻo, nō i kapa ai i ka 'oihana toastmaster, nana e koho i ka kōmi'ōkuhi kūpono o ka lā hānau.

Inā hana ia ma ka lā hānau o kou hoaloha ai'ole ka makahiki ho'omalu āu e noho ana ma kekahi kūlanakauhale'ē a'e a hiki'ole iā ia ke mahalo iā'oe i kāu hoaaloha, hiki iā'oe ke ho'ohana i nā leka o ka leka uila a ho'ouna aku i kahi makana iā ia. E hō'ike wale aku i kahi ma mua, e ho'okomo i ka makana i ka mea ho'opuka i mua o ka lō'ihi. Hiki ke ho'ouna i nā leo aloha i kahi kāne kāne ma ka pūnaewele a i'ole ka leka uila, no ka mea, aia ka nui o nā lawelawe e hā'awi nei i kēia lawelawe.

'O ka pilina maoli ka hau'oli nui i hā'awi'ole'ia i nā kānaka a pau, no laila he mea pono e ho'oikaika i kēia mau pilina mahana a ikaika. A no ka ho'omākaukau'ana no kahi lā hānau a i'ole kekahi lā nui'ē a'e i ka ola o kāu hoaaloha, e ho'okomo i kāu mana'o a pau e le'ale'a i kāu hoaaloha. 'A'ole pono e kū'ai'ia a hā'awi nui'ia ka makana, hiki iā'oe ke ho'ohana i ka pepa o ka hale pule e hō'olu'olu i nā po'e i ho'omana'o i kēia lā no ke ola!