I ka hele'ana me nā keiki. I kēlā papa hana e koho ai wau?

Nui nā mākua i kēia manawa e alaka'i i kahi nohona ola, hele. A mai ka wā'u'uku mai, ua lawe lākou i kā lākou mau keiki me lākou. No nā kamali'i,'o ka huaka'i hele ke kula kūpono loa! He manawa kūpono kēia e ho'onui ai i ka manawa me kou mau mākua, e'ike i kahi mea hou. Akā,'o ka lō'ihi o ka hele'ana me nā keiki'ōpio he nui nō ko lākou mau hi'ohi'ona. 'O kekahi mau mākua,'a'ole'ike i nā pane i nā nīnau e puka mai ana i ka manawa o ka ho'olālā'ana, a makemake paha e ha'alele i ke keiki i ko lākou kupuna wahine, a hō'ole paha i ka hele.

'O kekahi o lākou e moe ana ma ka'ili he "pilikia pilikia halepaku", hiki'ole ke komo i kahi mea e hiki ai ke pilikia i kahi kanaka makua,'a'ole e ha'i i kahi keiki. 'O ka hopena -'o kahi ipu hao. 'O ka mea nui kēia e ho'oponopono ai i ka pilikia, akā, aia kekahi mau nuances. No lākou - i lalo nei.

Pela ka mea ke alanui ipuhao? Hiki i nā koho he nui. He nui nā mākua e ho'oponopono i ka pilikia ma kēia'ano: koho lākou i ka'oi aku o ka ma'alahi a me ka'oi aku,'o ka ipu li'ili'i loa i loko o ka hale kū'ai. No ka ho'ohana'ana i ka home, hiki iā'oe ke koho i ke'ano kumu kūpono loa - me kahi kuapa'a, me kahi hiki ke ho'one'e'ia, me kekahi mau mea ho'olālā'ē a'e. Akā, ipuhao keiki ka alanui e e like na mea a me ka olelo hoopomaikai - mea hana wale. 'O kahi wale nō mea e pono ai ke nānā pono'ana i ka ho'omau pono. Ke ho'opoina nei kekahi po'e mea hana i ka huli'ana i ka māmā a me ka li'ili'i li'ili'i i kēia'ano.

'O kēia ka koho'oi loa a ma'alahi loa no ka ho'oholo'ana i ka pilikia, akā no ka li'ili'i o ka ipu o ke alanui, hiki ke hāpai i kahi he nui. 'O ka lua, hiki i kahi pilikia me ka ho'oku'u'ana o nā mea a me ka holoi'ana i ka pahu (inā,'ole,'a'ole hiki ke komo i kahi ke'ena hana lehulehu a i'ole no kekahi kumu'ē a'e). Hiki ke ho'oholo i kēia nīnau ma muli o ke'ano like me ka ipu hao, e hō'ike'ia ma lalo nei.

'O kekahi kumu'ē a'e, he ipu hao ia. 'O kona mau pōmaika'i nui kona māmā a me kona kūlike. Akā, he mau hanana hou. 'O ka mea mua, loa'a ka manawa e hō'opi'i ai, a'a'ole loa i ke keiki e a'o e pili ana i kona makemake ma mua. 'O ka lua,'a'ole kahi kūpono o ka ho'olālā kūpiliki'i ma mua o ka mea ula.

'O ka koho hou a'e he'aila hana kope. Ua'ike koke'ia kēia hana hou ma ko kāua māka me ka'oli'oli nui i nā mea nona nā mea nona. He nui nā mea hana hana o ia mau ipuhao, a no ka ho'onui'ana i ka huina kālā o kēia huahana, ua ho'onui'ia ko lākou koho. 'O kekahi o ka ipu i'a Pot Pot plus. He wahi malo'u no kahi ipuhao me nā wāwae e pi'i. Ma kahi'ano i ho'opili'ole'ia - he pa'i pālahalaha kēia, e noho ana i kahi li'ili'i o ka māhele a me ka māmā i ke kaumaha. Ma kahi o ka pahu, ho'ohana'ia kekahi pēke'oko'a. 'O kahi wale nō ka uku o ia mea hiki ke ma'alahi i ka hopena o ka hana hou - wehe, ho'opa'a'ia a kiola'ia. Inā pono, e ho'okomo i kahi papa'ē a'e. Ua ho'ololi kekahi mau mākua i ka ho'ohana'ana i nā'ele'ele ulaula ma'amau, ma mua o ka kū'ai'ana i nā'eke ulaula. He ma'alahi a ma'alahi ho'i kēia.

'O kēlā'ano ipu, inā pono, hiki iā'oe ke lawe pū me'oe'a'ole wale ma kahi huaka'i lō'ihi, akā, no ka hele lō'ihi. E ma'alahi'o ia i ka'eke wahine, he ma'alahi a he wikiwiki. Kūpono a kūpa'a ka ho'olālā. Eia hou, hiki ke ho'ohana'ia e like me ke uhi'ana i ka halepaku. Inā kū'ai'oe i kahi pūmole silicone kūikawā, a laila hiki ke ho'ohana'ia kēia ipu hao e like me nā mea ma'amau no ka ho'ohana'ana i ka home.