No ke aha la e kanaka hea? Nui pane i nā keiki i ka ninau

An maʻamau kanaka, ina ia mea,ʻaʻole he biologist ma ka aoao, ua olelo lealea e seriously manaʻo e pili ana i ka ninau: ma i na waimaka? No ke aha la e kanaka hea mai i loko o ka eha, ke kaumaha, kaʻeo, a me ka huhu? No ke aha la na wahine e hea hou pinepine, a hou ma mua o nā kānaka, a pehea e wehewehe i kēia mea i loko o hua'ōlelo o ka physiology a me kaʻike manaʻo?

E ka hoʻomaka mai ke kinohi. Ke lacrimal glands mea ole wale holoholona, akā, i nā manu. Eia naʻe, kanaka - ka wale i hanaia ma ke ano maoli, no ka mea, i ka uwēʻana - i kekahi mea reflex kaʻina hana, akā, i ka hōʻike o nā Emotions.

Ka ninau, i na waimaka, i kekahi mau manawa i manao ole waleʻepekema akā, i poe akeakamai.

Eia pehea ka ninau o ke aha kanaka hea, i mai la i ka hoololi Rebbe, i ka mea hoʻoheheʻe kālā o Chabad aʻo: "Ka ino kūkala nūhou kumu mīkini'opihia o ka lolo, i ukali ma ke kala ana o ka euanelio o ke kinowai ai i ke ku pono .. Brain koko kokuaia mai e hoonui ae i loko o ke kino o ka lele aku o ka ikaika.". E like me ka mea haipule poe akeakamai, kanaka waimaka - keia mea, aohe mea e like me ka lolo wai. Hoikehonua, 'epekema' Aʻole e hoʻopaʻapaʻa i kēia pā kula, akā,ʻaʻole hookupaa iho la ia. 'Oiai, i keia la ua ua ike no kekahi i ka hana o ka lacrimal glands, e like me nā mea a pau'ē aʻe keʻano o ka hanaʻana i loko o ke kino, e wahi ma lalo o ke alakaʻi o ka lolo.

'Amelika biochemist Vilyam Frey he mau makahiki o kona ola ana a hiki i ka huli' ana no ka pane ana i ka ninau: no ke aha la e kanaka hea? He kau aku i kona kuhiakau iho ia i ka wa o ka stress waimaka i ke kino o kaʻawahia waiwai i wehe. Kēia kumumanaʻo i ole ua maopopo ho'āʻo, a me nā kānakaʻepekema hoomau i ka noiʻi 'ana a me ka ulu ana. Naʻe, i kēia mea, e hana me ka kanaka physiology. Akā, i ka mea e pili ana i kā mākou Emotions? He waimaka mea pono no mākouʻuhane, soothe a alleviate i ka ehaeha? He pono ia, ina paha e kahea aku i loko o ka pilikia kulana home 'ole paha kekahi i kaʻuʻumi Emotions hemahema?

ʻIseraʻela nä känaka 'epekema biologist Orena Hasson, ina hookolokolo' ano 'pane o ke kanaka i loko o ka pae,'ōlelo i ka waimaka kanaka Hōʻike kona hoʻonawaiwali a me ka nawaliwali ka hoomaopopo ana. It E e kaulana i ka like naoh mai ka wā kamaliʻi, no ka mea, e hea ana keiki o Laielohelohe i ka noonoo ana o nā mākua, e haawi ana ia lakou i ka ike i kaʻike piʻi kino ai 'ole manaʻoʻike discomfort.

E like me ka mea nä känaka 'epekema, ka waimaka - he aiiay naoh o na kanaka psyche i ke ʻano pākīkē hana ana o na mea e ae, e like me ka pono me ka pono ala, e lawe mai i ka wahi ia iho ma luna o ka intuitiveʻilikai. Paha keia mea no kekahi i kekahi o mākou ua genetically waiho reactions i ke keiki e hea ana. Sobbing makua manao ia iā mākou i ka bebe, ka mea i nele kōkua. Biologist i kaumaha aku i kana kumumanaʻo iho o ka pono o ka waimaka, e kūkulu 'auamo i kona piko a.

"Mai hea ke keiki, 'aʻole' oe i ke kanaka ..."

Women hea aku oi ma mua o ka ikaika keka pinepine. He mea maopopo loa mea. He pili kēia i ka hopena o ka upbringing. Boy, mai kekahi kakahiaka nui elemakule ka haʻaheo i ka manaʻo i ke kanaka i hele ole maoli ke hea nei. Rapid 'ia o ka loka - ka mea, o ka hoolei ana i ke akahai a me ka lede kanaka manaoia maʻoi sloppy, ināʻaʻole i'ōpaha hysteric. Eia naʻe, psychologists koi e haawi holo pololei i kona mau Emotions pono ia i ka liʻiliʻi kēlā wā i kēia wā. Kēia ho'ōla i ka hailona o ka pōpilikia. Kauka ua i loaʻa i hou ola hoʻoipoipoʻana aie i kona hiki manawa e kanikau, a me ka nuisance e kiola ia mai o koʻu poo.

Naʻe, i loko o ka wahine ka whining mea hewa,ʻaʻole wale nō mea naʻau, akā, na hormones. Kekahi wahine kama'āina me ka moku'āina, i kapaʻia ma luna o ka 'inikua' ōlelo 'o "premenstrual maʻi pale". "I kiʻi huhū ma luna o kekahi mea, mau makemake, e kahea aku, i ke kino e pehu ae ..." - i keia mau olelo wehewehe e pili ana i kā lākou mau manaʻo i loko o kēia mau lā o ka maikai ke keka. Ke kumu no keia kulana, he nui na kumu manaoio o ka imbalance o estrogen a me ka progesterone hormones. Kekahi mea like me ka hoao ana a me na wahine ma ka menopausal a kia-menopausal.

Ka waimaka o ka olioli a me ka minamina

Mai hanau i ka make, ke kanaka ke hea nei ka awelika o 250 miliona manawa. E hoolaulea, he kilakila huahelu. A ua pono ike i ke kumu no ka waimaka - e mau loa ana me ke kaumaha. E hoomanao, ke ole oe e ole i ke holoi i ka ona mau, mai kona mau maka, a ihu lua i ka Homeric akaaka?

No ke aha la e kanaka e kahea me kaʻakaʻakaʻana? Ke kumu Ua puni hoʻi, a banal: ka lehalehu t nāʻiʻo hoʻoulu i ka gland, Aia i loko o ka loko kihi o ka maka, a ma lalo o kā lākou mau keiki i nā waimaka hoʻomaka e kahe.

Na kumu no na waimaka hiki ke kau, ia mea i pono i ka pilikia a me ka anxieties. Mākou a pau i ke kahea aku me ka loka, e nana ana i na keiki, e hele ana i ka papa mua. I hana papa aʻo aku wā e hiki mai litsedeev laila kaomi mai i ka waimaka, no ka mea, authentically kolo `Emotions - ia ka hapa o kaʻoihana kahuna. No laila, ua aʻo aku ai iā kumu e nanea minamina no oe ia oe iho, a me ka pololei i kekahi mau minuke, mai na maka poha me ka waimaka. Eia he guileless 'epekema.