No ke aha la e puhi i ka pepeiao, a no ke aha la makou e pono ai?

An hana hoihoi hiʻona o ke kanaka kino - "polyhanie pepeiao" - Ua lōʻihi kanaka ka noonoo ana o Laielohelohe. Eia naʻe, no ke aha la puhi i ka pepeiao? No ike pane i keia ninau, he hailona no ia. A me kekahi o ia hiki ke konane. No laila, he mea pono ke hana i kēia pukana i hou au mamuli.

Oia ka mea mua pane i ka ninau o ke kumu puhi i ka pepeiao o ke kanaka. Pepeiao ke kanaka kau ma luna o ke poo - keia mea ka loa indisputable. Ka lolo ua koloka lako me ke koko, no laila, i kēia hapa o ka kino i ka luawai-ulu circulatory kahua. ʻepekema, i ka lolo hoʻi i hoka ai ke hoʻoponopono i kekahi luna 'pilikia, hoʻokahi penei stimulates holo. A e like me ka ke kanaka, mai ka pepeiao hoʻomaka i ka "puhi."

Kēia ho'ākāka Ua kūkulu Logical pilina ma waena o ka cerebral holo, a me nā pepeiao mea maopopo leʻa manawa. 'Aʻole me ka kumu i mea e ala make inu,ʻo ia i' Imi anaanai na pepeiao - e hoonui koko a hiki i ka lolo. Akā, ke piliʻaneʻi ka kekahi mea e.

Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ina unconditionallyʻae i kēia pane i ka ninau, no ke aha la puhi i ka pepeiao o kekahi kanaka, a laila, i ka hōʻike, a hiki ma ke kākau 'ana, i ka pau' ole o examinees ina ua noho iho la me ke koko-ulaula pepeiao. Naʻe, i kekahi i loko o ka pepeiao, a hiki i Hana me ka loa luna 'pilikia i na pepeiao o ka maʻamau ano. Malia paha kēia mau kanaka pono mai,ʻaʻole makemake, e hana me ko lakou mau lolo nona ka 'ole o ka hana, e kau no ia i loa i pilikia? Ka ninau hope koe unanswered.

Koho lua o pane ana i ka ninau e pili ana i ke kumu puhi i ka pepeiao, i kaumaha aku ai i noiʻi a me nā kānakaʻepekema hou. Ka mea hoʻopaʻapaʻa i "ahi wela ahi" hoʻomaka i na pepeiao hapanui kanaka ka wā e 'ike ikaika Emotions iloko o ku una pane ma ka hōʻike,'ōlelo ma mua o ka lohe nui i ka manawa o ka halawai ana me ka mea i aloha ai kekahi me ka mea e pili ana i no loko o kanalua o, i loko o ka lua o ka ka mea kiʻekiʻe loa o ka makau a me ka hilahila. Ke kauluwela i nā huhui palaoa, a me ka makemake, no ka laʻana, i ka wa a ke kanaka lohe i na olelo o ka lōʻihi-kakali haʻiʻana i ke aloha o ke ...

Ma keia wahi, kekahi makuahine pono ka hoike i ko lakou outrage ia olelo. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, kā lākou mau keiki teenage pepeiao i loa maʻamau waihoʻoluʻu a pau,ʻaʻohe mea pehea seriously hoʻohana pākela i a me nā mākua a me kekahi overage makemake e ka hilahila hewa keiki. A hana wale ia i ole hilahila?

Ua pono, keia ninau mea,ʻaʻole ma ka pepeiao, akā, o ka hoʻonaʻauao 'ana. I kekahi manawa e hana ia mea mākua manaʻo hilahila, no ka mea, he keiki - ia mea hala loa he like hanana. Akā, i ka hana i kekahi manawa i ka paʻakikī kanaka e ulu ana i loko o mumule "nā pūʻulu" ma waena o nā mākua, a hanau mai la ia me kona ike paka i ka manaʻoʻike ke'ākeʻakeʻa mai. A me ia mea ke kumu makua ka hoino ana a hooluhi notation kumu i ole hiki i ka pahu hopu, pono e noho i loko o ike paka i ke keiki ka.

Kekahi pane i ka ninau e pili ana i mea na pepeiao i ke ahi, hiki ke loaʻa i waena o ka poʻe e noho ana, ka poe i manaoio i ka nānā i nā'ōuli. Ostensibly ula pepeiao hōʻike 'ana i keia kanaka kekahi "maka ÿole ÿia hoÿi" kamaʻilio hoʻowawāʻia paha, hou, "i mua ÿole ÿia hoÿi", kekahi ikaika scolds. Ma ke ala, uaʻike mau ka naauao,ʻepekema i kekahi hookupaa iho la ia, ma muli o ka mea i kekahi kanaka i ka hiki - e haha aku i ka mamao impulses, a pane koke ia ia.

A ina keia mea e kuhikuhi mai i ka mea kaulana manaʻoʻiʻo, wehewehe i kou mau pepeiao i ke ahi, a me ka papa hana no ka māhuahua koko holo i loko o ka lolo, kekahi mea i ike ka hoailona haumāna. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, kokoke nā haumāna e waiho ana i ka hōʻike, ao ka poe hoahanau a me na makamaka: "Ua pono,ʻo ia i hele ai! E ka i poina iʻaneʻi e scold iaʻu maikai! "

A ka mea, he oiaio, i ka pilina ua maopopo: i ka hale haumana "scratched i loko o nā mea a pau o ka huhui", mai keia ia hoʻomaka e puhi i ka pepeiao, i ke koko ke kome i ka lolo nui, aʻo ia i hoʻomaka i ka manaʻo, manaʻo a me ka manaʻo. A me kekahi mau mea a hiki kōkua i ana kekahi, i ka hōʻike. No ina ole i kekahi haʻi'ōlelo i lilo kekahi i loko o ke kau. A ma ka liʻiliʻi loa ka mea, ua hiki mai i ka hapanui o ia mau mea.