Psychologist Galina Belozub: mea, lalau mai o ka wahine loneliness

Galina Belozub like me ka psychologist pinepine loaa noi mai nā mea mālama mai: "au i ai i na makahiki, a au hiki ole kiʻi mare, i ole 'ohana." Ua manao na mea a pau, he - a me ka nani, a me ka naau, a me kaʻoihana kahuna. A me koʻu makuwahine kaniʻuhū ana, a me nā hoa / hoalauna pestered ninau, "Ua pono, mare ua i loaa?" Makaʻu ka heluna o ka mea i ka laekahi lede o kanakolu makahiki i mare, e e okoa, e like me Galina Belozub. Eia naʻe, inā ua helu mai i mau kumu, ua hiki ke hoomaopopo ekolu ka papa kuhikuhi. Mua - keia io e pili ana i na kanaka. Aia o ia ka hoʻolako 'ia i loko o kona wā kamaliʻi, a me ka hoʻoponopono i kēia mau pilikia maikaʻi me ka psychologist. Ka lua o ke kumu - haʻahaʻa ka hoʻoponopono-nani a me ka nele o ka hoʻoponopono-aloha. Ka wahine me ka pakiko-ʻia, aole ia e manaoio ia ia mea hiki ke hāʻule i loko o ke aloha, i ka mea i pono ka manao. A, e pale aku i ka eha o ka rejection, ua ole ai, e kamaʻilio me nā kānaka. Ke kolu o ka kumu - keia mahuahua nui o ke koi ana. Holo i pakele mai ka aku o ka lanakila i loko o illusion. E like me kela kino hana me kēia mau kumuhana i loko o kā lākou hana Galina Belozub.

Books i kākauʻia e ia, e kauoha ana i ke akea hoihoi i waena o ka lehulehu. Ka loa kaulana o kēia mau mea i ka "ulia o ke kanaha. Kōkua laekahi wahine." No hoi i ka 2007, ua paʻi i ka puke, "Marriage mai ka wanaao a hiki i molehulehu", hoolaa ana i ke kumuhana o ka mare ana a me ka mare ana, pehea e hālāwai me kou 'ē aʻe hapa. Her puke, "E koho, koho mākou" Ua oi e pili ana i ke kumuhana o ka hoapili ia koho pilikia.

Nā palapū e aloha ia ke kuleana hūnā 'ike a

Kekahi hopena maikaʻi 'ehaʻeha o kekahi hanana, a ua ai me ke kanaka e like me ke keiki, me ka weliweli hopena ma luna o kona wā e hiki mai ke ola. E like me ka hopena, ma laila nō 'ole o ka manaʻoʻike trauma: haʻahaʻa ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia, okoa makaʻu, ka maopopo, hoʻokaʻawale. A me ka like loa me ke kanaka, aole ia e hoola i kana traumatized wā kamaliʻi a hiki i ona lā, a, e,ʻo kanaka a pili i aggravate ia. Ke theme like o ka hoola mea naʻau eha mau loa ola a me ka manaʻo. Junior psychologist Liz Burbo i ka loa kūlike loa Mea Maluna o nā palapū a me kā lākou mau mea, lalau mai:

• eha hookuke aku;
• haalele eha;
• eha ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa;
• devotional eha;
• hewa eha.

? Eaia nā mea kūʻai mai Hehe hope i koʻu wā kamaliʻi, a me nā hanana e hoʻomau e aloha ia lakou. Me kēia mau nā palapū pono e hana me ka hoʻomalu, wahi a Galina Belozub. Kawaihae o ka psychologist mai nei ia ia mea he wahi lihi iki o nā wahi i loko o Popular Hōʻuluʻulu manaʻo puke, e like me "kaʻu Family" Magazine.

Pehea e emi i ka hopena o nā palapū e pilikino?

Mākou i keia iloko o na Emotions a me ka manaʻo i ka naʻau, lawe ia haʻi ana i kekahi mau hua'ōlelo: "Iʻae, Iʻae ...." Galina Belozubov manaoio ia mākou no laila, kākaʻikahi i kapa ia lakou iho, i ko lakou hoomaopopo ana i kēia mau pohihihi keia minute o ko mākou kino, mākou I Ka Nani wale ka hoailona o ka mahalo ke hookuu aku oia i ka traumatic kulana. He mea pono i ka poino i ka lapaau ana, e manaoio psychologist Galina Belozub. Ka ohana, o ka papa, i kahi o ka pilikia a pau i hanau ai.

ka hui o

Hawaii - he pilina ma, ka noʻonoʻo kaʻina ka wā 2 a mea naʻau moku'āina o ka manaÿo e pili ana i kekahi i kekahi, i loko o ka SPIKE. No ka laʻana, ke aloha a me ka hoomanawanui. No kekahi, këia mau manaÿo i'ālike ma ka manaʻo. No ke aha? No ka mea, a puni (a ho film), kekahiʻike wale e loaa ana ma ke aloha. A no kekahi "ohana" pili i ka hua'ōlelo "pomaikai", a no kekahi - a me na huaolelo "ke kaumaha, a me kaʻeha". Mau ahahui i pale i ke kahua o ke ola pili me ke ku pono ana i ke keka, a, e kūkulu i ka piha-fledged ohana hope i loko o ke ola.

pono

Ka loa ikaika tribal pono ka wā lākou mau aʻa, ko makou aloha hele ai i nā kūpuna o kākou. I ka pono, no ka laʻana, ko kākou mau kūpuna i kā lākou mau luna pahaʻohana i mālama i ko lākou ola. Oe e kupaʻa i kou makuahine. Mom wale nō,ʻo ia i noho a pau kona ola me kana kane, ua mea olioli ole. Oe e ole ae oe i ka olioli ma ka kūpaʻa me koʻu makuwahine! Pehea?! I?! Au e loaʻa i ka ohana!? Mom e ole ola! A i 'ole ma ke kūpaʻa a me kona keiki Mom' aʻole e mare i ka lua o ka manawa. I mea energetically wahine ua mare: kana keiki, ke keiki, no ka mum, no ka makuakāne! Ua aloha i kaʻoihana kahuna, i ka wa a ke kanaka devotes ia ia iho i kana hana, e like me ke kahua. Ma keia hihia, aloha i ke kumu, apparently, kekahi kokua e ola mahope aku o nā kūpuna,ʻo ia subconsciously e noho ana i loko o kaʻiʻo nō o kēia hanauna. Ua aloha no ke kaiapuni - a pau hookahi keia manawa, a me mākou nō nā mea a pau i kona ola ma laila, e like me ka mea, e hoʻolilo au iā lākou? Pehea "maʻemaʻe" aloha? Aia nō kekahi mau 'ana i kūpono, he hana i hoʻohana i ka psychologist ma ka kūkā. Ka mea, i ka nānā 'ana ma luna o ka ae loa pono a me ka. Ua hoi i ka ikaika Galina Belozub mare no ma ka iwakālua o ka makahiki, hoala keiki elua. ko lakou mau ohana pinepine ike 'ia e lawe i ka hana a me ka poe i pono i kona manaʻo a me ke kōkua.