Filofobiya - He aha ka mea? Pehea i kau mai ka makau o ke aloha

I kēia lā, ua kamailio e pili ana i ka makau o ko o ke aloha, ke aloha e hana kekahi kanaka i uluhia e ia lakou, e hana na mea a pau loa, e luku aku i ka pilina mea nō i loko o kona wā kamaliʻi, i ka makau ana o lilo aku, a oi laha i waena o kona wā. No laila, filofobiya - He aha ka mea?

Pehea i filofobiya

Mai nā kanaka filofoby OAOOUIEeE i loko i ka mea oluolu ka hana wale no ka poe i maopopo hiki ole i kapa aku ai ke aloha. Ia mea me he hoalawepu i Hana Hoʻohaʻahaʻa a hoʻowahāwahā i - hoi,ʻaʻole like me ka launa kino mamua. He kēia heluia, a me ke kumu no obsessive phobic kanaka e haha aku palekana.

Akā, mai manaʻo hōʻikeʻana ma luna o ka manaʻo o "filofobiya", i mea i ka noho ana i mea akin i ka masochism. No, filofob i na hanauna ino pilina, e like me ka rula, hiki ole ke wehe pilikiaʻana, ka mea, ua lawa ka ulu instinct no ka pakiko-malama ana, a no laila, pinepine ka mea, ke noho wale, me na keiki i.

Filofobiya: He aha ia mea, a pehea ia e hoʻomōhala ana i

E hoʻokani ana trite oiaio i "mākou a pau e hele mai, mai kamaliʻi" no ka filofobov He loa oiaio, no ka mea, i ko lakou mau pilikia originate ma ka noho 'ana kamaliʻi makau ma ia mau hanana hoike ma ke keiki. Kēia hiki e:

• paakiki i ka hopena o ka makuakane a me ka makuwahine, i ka hewa no ka i ua waiho i ke keiki i kekahi o na makua;
• hele mai ana me ka hopena o ke aloha makua kāne a me ka makuwahine i loko o ka 'ohana ka stepfather a stepmother. Ma ke alanui, ia mea,ʻaʻole e pono ai ka mea, i ia e hewa ai i ke keiki;
• i ka hanau ana o ke keiki kaikaina a me koʻu kaikuwahine, e lawe aku i ka noonoo ana o na makua. No ka mea, o keia aloha i ke keiki mua i lilo i kekahi mea weliweli, e alakai i ka loneliness.

Akā, i kēia rebirth i ka manaʻo o ke aloha hiki i hoʻomōhala i nā mākua. E like me ka rula, i ke kumu o ia mau mea i ka makaʻu o ka i kuleana no kekahi e aloha aku, a ua laweia mai i loko o ka hana kaumaha ohana - ka makau o losing ku okoa ana. Aole i pohihihi keia, a me ka makau o ka repetition o ke kaumaha hana mua i hala i ko lakou pili.

Filofobiya: Symptoms

Filofobiya hoike aku i ka hai manawa, a hou i ka hope o kekahi aloha i loaaʻi. He, e like me ka mea e ae, ua imi no ka hoalawepu noonoo ana a me ka mālama, akā, i kekahi manawa, i ka hope hoʻomaka e hōʻike ia filofob ikaika pulls hoʻi mai i ka mea o kona kuleana, i ke kaua e hele ma, ina wale, e alalai mai i ka makau iho la lakou launa.

I oi loa hoopii, na kanaka hiki ho'āʻo i ka hao i kona helehelena,ʻaʻole e lilo i mea o ke aloha: ka mea hoopai pakiko-ino, a lawe mai ia lakou iho i ka loa obesity. A me kekahi manawa, ka mea, ho'āʻo lōʻihi aggression i ka poe i makemake ia, e makau ana oia, e pānaʻi aku. Akā, inā i ka hoapili ia mea hoihoi ole wale ma ka filofobom, akā, i hawawa koʻu i ka ia, i noho me kaʻikeʻole e holo ana ia ia i kekahi kanaka, e manao ana i keia mea ma kona "maluhia ciia."

Filofobiya: lapaʻau

E like me oe i ike, keia haiahū kūmau pono muli o kōkua i ke kino. Akā, ua E hoomanao i ole hypnosis,ʻaʻohe helu kuʻina,ʻaʻohe psychotropic lapaʻauʻia mai,ʻaʻole kōkua i loko o keia kulana. No ka hoola filofobu koi 'ia kamailio ana, corrective ike paka i. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ia mea paʻakikī nui e maopopo pehea ia la filofobiya mea ia mea, a pehea e kaua ia. Koke aku au e olelo aku i ka prognosis ka loa maikaʻi i loko o kēia maʻi, e like me ka umi o ka poe he umikumamakahi ua loa hoola iho la ia, mai o kona ola ana.