Hāʻule pohō wale ma kaʻike manaʻo: dimly maopopo ma ka makahiki

He nui nā hua'ōlelo i loko o kā mākou 'ōlelo i hoʻohana' akau a me ka lima hema, eia nae lākou manaʻo nui koe e hoʻohoka no ka mea i loko o. Kēia ka mea i hiki mai ai i ka hua'ōlelo "hāʻule pohō", ka mea, ua nui makemake e hoʻohana i kekahi psychologists hana, me ka haawi ana i ka olelo hoakaka. No laila, i ka hāʻule pohō wale?

Hoʻoholo 'o nā mea kani-- "ka mea naʻau a me ka sensuous naoh i ka unexpected ia'ku o ka puni' ia ai." O ka holo ana, i kēia mea he loa mau ho'ākāka 'ana. Ma lalo o ka ia'ku hiki ke maopopo like okoa ana - nā kanaka i ka reactions, kaʻawaʻawa loa hanana. Ia mea, ina he mea kekahi kekahi discrepancy ma waena o 'upu' a me ka ike maopopo, a me ke kanaka e hāʻawi mai ia i ka mea naʻau naoh, keia naoh e e kapa hāʻule pohō wale. Ma ka Lūkini 'ōlelo' ana i ka olelo hea ka mea me ka manaʻo o "hilahila."

O ka holo ana, ma ka ho'ākāka 'ana, ka mea i ike i keia kulana ka loa kaʻawaʻawa loa. Hāʻule pohō wale ma kaʻike manaʻo - pinepine hoʻohana makahiki, no ka mea, accompanies mākou ma ke ola. Ua Ua hoʻolaha i loko o na, a mawaho hāʻule pohō ma luna o nā kumu o ke kaua. Pā i e ku pono ana i ka mea i kekahi kanaka hoonoho ia iho pahu hopu, a loaʻa iā ia, aole ia i hana. Hāʻule pohō wale pinepine ia lŘlŘ ka wā o ka'ōhumu mai o ka makemake ikaika a me nā pono a me nā instincts. Ke kanaka ua pinepine nalowale ina o ka mea i ka mea, ua ana loaa, anapu koke pohaku e hana mai. He hoi he kumu o ka hāʻule pohō wale i e ka ike o ke alo aku o kekahi pono a pau o, no kekahi laʻana, e makau oukou ia e olelo akea paha kau mai ka makau o ka socializing. A laila, i ke kahua o ka ole, e maka i kekahi manawa,ʻaʻole hoʻi iʻelua wale. No hoi, maloko hāʻule pohō wale ma kaʻike manaʻo ua manaoia e ia i kaʻilihune o ka kipi kūloko hana, i ka wa a ka manaʻo o ka moe ua ālai 'o ka manaʻo o ka mea' ē aʻe, keia ua kapaia cognitive dissonance.

Mawaho hāʻule pohō wale ma kaʻike manaʻo - ua disconcerting, ua kena ae la ia e kumumea i ma kēlāʻaoʻao o ke kanaka. Ia mea, ina au i paʻa i loko o kalepa - ka mea, 'o ka mawaho kumu o ka hāʻule pohō wale. A i 'ole koke Head pololei koi' ia e hana i ka hana i loko o a ka limahana 'Aʻole maopopo ole. Ka mua moku'āina i ka kekahi kanaka, e haha mai, a e hāʻule pohō wale. ʻOiai ka mea hiki ke hele i loko o aggression, aʻaʻole nona ma ke kumu, i hoʻonāukiuki mai hilahila. A ma laila nō i loko o ko mākou ola, puke kulana home 'ole: he kanaka tyrannized Make Loa, laila, ke kanaka i loko o ka hale, ua wāwahi ka wahine, i ka wahine i loaʻa mai i nā keiki, a me ka mea hope i loko o ke kaulahao o ka aggression i Style. Ua pau ka hoʻomaka 'ana me ka hāʻule pohō wale o kekahi kanaka.

Keia ano hiki i kekahi mau kanaka kaiʻewaʻewa naoh. He aha ka i ka pilina o ka hāʻule pohō wale a me ka pale maomeka o ke kanaka? Inā i ka nui o ka mea mua ma ka liʻiliʻi loa awelika, a me ka mea hope, nā OAXA. Ka muaʻano papa hana - ike like me ka manawa i nā mea a pau pohupani hale. Kaʻawaʻawa loa ana i keia hihia, e like me ka mea i poina, akā, e hoʻomau i ka noho i loko o ka unconscious a me ka hoopilikia mai i kekahi kanaka. Regression - he "hoi" o ke kanaka ma ka kahua mua o ke? Acaeoey, i kekahi hana e ia i naoh i ka hāʻule pohō wale. Ke kolu, he pono ole ke paleʻano papa hana - i ka hoolilo, keia mea no ka hiki ai ia oe i ike ai mamua aku nei nō - ka wā i kekahi kanaka lawe mai wreck o kona mau manao, e pani (a ole wale).

O ka holo ana, i kekahiʻano o ka hokahoka mea maʻamau a me ka mea o ka pono ia makou, e ka hoʻomaikaʻi ia makou iho, aka, ina e ua loohia lakou i ka lōʻihi manawa, i ka hope o ka ikaika stress hiki ke olonā wāwae ola. No na maʻi pili me ka hāʻule pohō wale, he pono ole i waena'ōnaehana. Kā lākou hana He kuleana lawa, ma ka hou, ka mea, i ke pane mai i na poo o ka luna o ka huakaʻi. O ka ihu, ma laila nō ke kanaka ano o ka pane a me ka ke'ākeʻakeʻa hiki ke lanakila, akā, e pono keu manawa a me ke kākoʻo 'ana. Inā he kanaka ua aʻo e hoʻoponopono i ka pilikia, o ka huli hou 'ana o ka haunaele hiki ole e. Hāʻule pohō wale ma kaʻike manaʻo ua maopopo i ka naoh i hiki ole i ka lanakila, no laila, inā ua loaʻa kekahi kanaka me ka pilikia akā, surmountable ma ka olelo o na akamai pū nō hoʻi 'aʻa, ka mea e makemake ai,ʻaʻole hāʻule pohō wale.