'Ike - mea heʻano papa hana o ka palekana i ka wahi lulu aggressor

Anna Freud, imi i keʻano pākīkē makou a holo, a hiki i ka hopena i ka libido a me ka aggression i kekahi, a me ka ia kumu - ka unconscious ke kanaka, e like me ka pono i hoʻomōhala ma ka ia rula. Kahua o ka? Acaeoey oʻano pākīkē impulses - ka ia me ia ma ka hooulu ana o libidinal impulses, a i like aiiay maomeka, e like me Ka mea i pili loa ua hoʻopili. Akā, i keʻano pākīkē makou a holo mai kekahi hanana aiiay maomeka: ka'aheʻelele a me ka 'ike me ka aggressor.

Ma ke kumu o ka hana ana me na keiki Anna Freud ua noʻonoʻo 'ana i kekahi mau koho no ka ho okumu ana i manaʻoʻike pale -' ike me ka aggressor:

1) Na keiki hiki ke kuhikuhi i ke ʻano pākīkē hana ana o ke kanaka āna i makau. Ma keia hihia, ke 'ike - hoohalikeia ia i kekahi kanaka ma kona lehalehu t, ka' aoʻao, hana, Emotions kiʻi. No ka laʻana, he keiki ka mea, e like me ka hale kumu 'maka "i nā haʻawina, hai wale i kona lehalehu t' aoʻao o ia i markedly emi aku ana lakou, mai kaʻaoʻao.

2) I mea e lanakila i ka makaʻu o nā keiki ke kū kaʻawale hele mai me ka aoao e hoʻopale ai e ku e ia ia, hou i ka illusory hana hiki aggressor. Ke kaikamahine ka mea ua makau iho la ia o kaʻUhane Hemolele, a ua manaoio aku, i loko o ka pouli ala hele, ma ka mea e lanakila ma luna o kēia mau makahiki i ia nui e hooluhi ana i kona mau lima e like me ka hiki ia ia ke loaa i ka hana i ka uhane. Ma ia wahi, i hiki, no ka 'ike - he kūlana reversal ka wā i ke keiki i loaʻa i loko o ke alo o kona makau i manao iho i ka aggressor.

3) keiki i pinepine hōʻike 'ia me ka mawaho mea, a me ka mana o kona aggression. ʻalo me ka lima hana hale haʻuki kumu, he haumāna i hele mai i ke kula i ka ia la ae, a me kekahi mauʻano o nā mea kaua, i ho'āʻo e hui pu i kona mana, ka ikaika, masculinity. I aku o ka lanakila, ke kumu i ole hoike aggression, oia i imi i ka hoopai aku i ke keiki, a ua hoikea mai ke kamaiki i nui aggression, pehea na aoao he nui e hoomalu aku i nā mea a pau e hiki aiʻano pākīkē hana a ikaika na kanaka. Ma ia wahi, i hiki, no ka 'ike - i ka hoike ana o ka ka pukaʻana superego o ke keiki, i ka wa a ka haumāna i' Aʻole e hōʻike aggression, a loaa ke alanui, e pale aku ia i loko o ka wā e hiki maiʻaoʻao o ka hoomalu ana. Ma waho aʻeo no ka āpana o na mea o ia i ke keiki ke hoʻomaka e komo i loko o haʻuki, mahuahua ko lakou muscular ikaika.

4) hana lealea, keiki pinepine kolo `na aggressors, nooaai kona attraction, eia nae iā ia,ʻaʻole e hana mai nā mākua a me na¯ ana i ka hana o ka aggression. Ma kekahiʻano pākīkē hihiu 'ike - he ano o nooaai? Heʻano pākīkē makou a holo i ka wa a ka mea maloko aggressor hiki ke lawe i ke ano o ke koa, ano e oia, a terminator.

'Ike me ka aggressor - ia mea he maʻamau kaʻina hana o ka hooponopono ana o kona attraction, i hiki ke aʻo a me ke kōkua o ke Fantasy, lealea, haʻuki. ʻO asocial 'ia nā keiki hana lākou aggression e hōʻike me ka pūʻulu o nā aggressors e ia i kekahi pūʻulu o "ko lakou" kekahi hapa o ka nohona maʻano pākīkē ikaika. 'Ike i loko o ka ohana ia lŘlŘ i loko o ke keiki me ka nui'ē aʻe, a me ko lakou mau ano o ka ano,' o ia hoʻi, 'ike o ke kanaka - o ke kaʻina hana o ka? acaeoey o ke keiki, noho pu ana me nā kanaka,ʻaʻohe mea me ka hana attraction' ike:ʻano pākīkē a libidinal.

Ka ikaika o keʻano pākīkē kipaku aku ai iā maoli he like loa me ka mea ua papaia a ke keiki mea,ʻaʻole hiki ke hooponopono ia, mea i kama'āina me kona ikaika a me ka mana. ʻino hewa ke lilo me he keiki, a ua pololei papaia e hōʻike aggression, a me ka mea nana i hoike uncontrollably a mau. Forensic 'ike, oa ka wehewehena o karaima fingerprints, leo a me nā 'ano o ka hoʻopiha, ia wale aɃe, akā,' aʻole i hoʻoponopono i ka pilikia o kona aggression. Psycho-kumu kiʻina hana me ka na aggressor i mau "eager" i ka hoike ana ia lakou iho, e e lawe mai, mai ka wanaʻao elemakule, aʻo makou a holo, ke kaōhiʻana ia, a mālama 'ia.